Spring semester: day thirty
It really seems like more of the semester has passed than actually has. It's around this time in any given semester that time seems to just. begin. dragging. on. Because of that, despite the fact that I've basically had an unexpected week off due to the car issues, I'm exhausted and really tired again all the time.
Please note: this is not necessarily a bad thing. The causes of my exhaustion are wide and far-reaching, but not necessarily bad. In fact, one of those causes has been exceptionally good. I've just been overly tired, overworked in some regards, and have been functioning for going on two weeks now with very little sleep. All of this, really, I'm pretty okay with. I'm still awake, alert, functional, paying my bills and going to school (when the car doesn't die on me, that is), and I've been me. Just a more-tired version of me. While I am in incredibly good spirits about everything going on right now (things which I will, eventually, shed a little light on, so be patient), I am still really tired. It's a good tired, though.
It's a Monday and I've been awake since 6AM. This may not be surprising or unusual for a lot of you, but keep in mind I'm off on Mondays. I usually sleep until around noon or 1 on Mondays, so being awake before dawn is really jarring to me on a Monday morning. Now that I've said that, watch me have to teach on Monday/Wednesday next semester at 8AM. Or, hopefully, I won't have to teach at all.
Y'see, amongst all of the other things I must do this week, I must ready my application for the department fellowship. I've mentioned the fellowship here before, briefly. The department usually awards two every year, one to a poet and one to a fiction writer. Sometimes they give out three, but that's a rare occasion. If you apply for and win the fellowship, it's basically a free ride for a year -- yes, you will be required to pay in-state tuition, but you get a paycheck (it balances out to a little bit more per month than a normal GTA makes), your own office (usually) and the bonus of not teaching for a full year -- which gives the fellow more time to work on his/her craft. For me, if I win it, I will be spending a lot of the extra time I have on finishing my coursework and reading/studying somewhat for comps. But, to win it, one must apply. And the application deadline is Friday.
I've known that the application deadline is Friday for several days now, probably about a week, actually. I just haven't yet put together a "packet" of sorts for the application. Poets are supposed to include 5-6 poems, I believe, or something like that. While I've been creating what I would consider exemplary work (for the most part) during the past year or so, I'm not sure any of it's good enough to win the fellowship. I'm really negatively biased about my own writing, though -- stuff that I think is really good other people end up hating, and vice-versa. I've tried to pare down my style quite a bit, make it more barebones and build from there, but I'm not sure how successful I've been in doing so. I think one of the reasons I was passed over for it last year was because everyone else who applied was just so good, and indeed the poetry fellow who won completely deserved to win. But I also think a large part of it was that all of my works then were just so unpolished, in so many different styles, wordy, etc. I've tried to completely revamp my entire writing style as well as the mindset I go into when I write poetry, and sometimes it's more effective than others. Regardless, if I want even a chance at winning the fellowship for my third year, I have to hastily ready an application sometime this week and drop it off in the department office. That I will probably at least attempt to work on this afternoon, as I have a bit of free time.
The "week off" has brought to light an interesting scenario. I mentioned previously that about 80% of the department is going to the AWP conference this week; it starts on Wednesday. I may have also mentioned previously that because of this, all of the classes I'm taking are canceled this week, aside from my practicum session with the English 102 director and my last meeting with our visiting poet this semester. My classes that I'll be teaching, of course, are still in session, and they need to be now more than ever since my car blew up last week. I'm starting a new unit in my class on Thursday (as well as collecting papers), so it's rather important I be there this week regardless of whether I have classes of my own or not. Because of my schedule, on Tuesdays and Wednesdays I always have a ton of other stuff going on aside from classes. Tomorrow, for example, I have afternoon office hours and my meeting with the visiting poet, and should make up my missed writing center hour as well. Wednesday? Office hours and practicum, if it's not canceled. And my normal writing center hour, which is sort of important if the department is shorthanded on that day. Which it probably will be.
Despite all of this stuff going on, I have still not finalized or filed my taxes. At all. Which is my other big task for the rest of the day. I have to get it done TODAY, because I need to renew my FAFSA form online for Flat State University by March 1st. That's Thursday. Even with a somewhat easier week, if I don't do all this stuff today, it's going to drive me nuts and I won't get it done before then. Plus, I still have students' workshop copies to look over/grade (a few, anyway) and will be getting a new, fresh stack of final copies to grade on Thursday. These next few weeks are going to be somewhat busy, I think.
But, things are going well. Things are going right in my life for once, for the time being. And I'm really happy about that. I just have to keep the ball rolling on everything that needs to be rolling without getting too strung-out or sleep-deprived. And even if I do, I need to keep going. What was the line from Frost? Promises to keep / Miles to go before I sleep? Yeah, it's like that.
Monday, February 27, 2012
Friday, February 24, 2012
The Monte Carlo Story, Part II
Spring semester: day twenty-nine
The Monte Carlo lives. And lives much better, too.
Around 11 yesterday morning I was called (awakened, sort of, as I had just been laying in bed daydreaming and slipping in/out of consciousness since 9) and told that my car was finished and that I could pick it up any time. The lady asked me if I needed a ride up there, and I gladly accepted.
"Well, are you ready now? Because I can get you now, or within the next 20 minutes or so, but may not be able to later."
Mind you, I was still in bed. But I did want my car back.
"Absolutely," I said to her on the phone, leaping out of bed to vault upstairs and get dressed.
About half an hour later I'd thrown on a t-shirt, hoodie, and shorts (as it was still around 60 outside) and was picking my car up from the auto repair shop. The total was slightly lower than I thought it would be -- $279 or so -- but I got the mighty Decepticon back and brought her home, all patched up for the time being. I will say that she drives a lot more smoothly now; apparently the belt/tensioner must have been going out for a long time. Her steering is so much easier-handling than before, and she doesn't idle or run as rough at all. Because I can more easily steer her, the huge turning radius I used to have to worry about with the landboat she is has now become almost nonexistent.
But yes, I paid for her repairs, very graciously thanked the techs and mechanics who worked on her, and drove home. Once I got here, I started on the catch-up homework/housework I need to do this weekend. And there's a lot of it, let me tell you.
That $279 took a big chunk out of my bank account, but it's not insurmountable. I still have plenty of money to eat, pay bills, etc. -- without any worries for the time being. That, of course, will change for the better once I get my tax refunds as well, most of which will also be going into the car for tires and other maintenance/repairs for a multitude of reasons. I need to make, and keep, that car as reliable as possible for the foreseeable future. If that means spending a lot of spare cash on it, then I have to do it -- otherwise this incident will be the first of many.
Still, as my mother told me, at least I got a long(er) weekend out of all the car problems. And there are times that, if given the option, I would certainly pay $279 for a few more days off. Does it balance out? Logically, not really. But spiritually and in a rest-and-relaxation sense? Yep. At least, good enough for me.
I've been severely sleep-deprived over the past few days for a multitude of reasons, most of them exceedingly good ones. My lost hours of sleep are beginning to take their collective toll, though, and I see myself going to bed at a reasonable hour at least tonight. A "reasonable hour" equates to "before 3AM" for me. And I have to shower first -- I've been so busy all day that I haven't had the chance. I've not been eating a whole lot either, for the record. Just haven't been that hungry. Maybe I'm entering some new phase of life.
At least, I hope so...
The Monte Carlo lives. And lives much better, too.
Around 11 yesterday morning I was called (awakened, sort of, as I had just been laying in bed daydreaming and slipping in/out of consciousness since 9) and told that my car was finished and that I could pick it up any time. The lady asked me if I needed a ride up there, and I gladly accepted.
"Well, are you ready now? Because I can get you now, or within the next 20 minutes or so, but may not be able to later."
Mind you, I was still in bed. But I did want my car back.
"Absolutely," I said to her on the phone, leaping out of bed to vault upstairs and get dressed.
About half an hour later I'd thrown on a t-shirt, hoodie, and shorts (as it was still around 60 outside) and was picking my car up from the auto repair shop. The total was slightly lower than I thought it would be -- $279 or so -- but I got the mighty Decepticon back and brought her home, all patched up for the time being. I will say that she drives a lot more smoothly now; apparently the belt/tensioner must have been going out for a long time. Her steering is so much easier-handling than before, and she doesn't idle or run as rough at all. Because I can more easily steer her, the huge turning radius I used to have to worry about with the landboat she is has now become almost nonexistent.
But yes, I paid for her repairs, very graciously thanked the techs and mechanics who worked on her, and drove home. Once I got here, I started on the catch-up homework/housework I need to do this weekend. And there's a lot of it, let me tell you.
That $279 took a big chunk out of my bank account, but it's not insurmountable. I still have plenty of money to eat, pay bills, etc. -- without any worries for the time being. That, of course, will change for the better once I get my tax refunds as well, most of which will also be going into the car for tires and other maintenance/repairs for a multitude of reasons. I need to make, and keep, that car as reliable as possible for the foreseeable future. If that means spending a lot of spare cash on it, then I have to do it -- otherwise this incident will be the first of many.
Still, as my mother told me, at least I got a long(er) weekend out of all the car problems. And there are times that, if given the option, I would certainly pay $279 for a few more days off. Does it balance out? Logically, not really. But spiritually and in a rest-and-relaxation sense? Yep. At least, good enough for me.
I've been severely sleep-deprived over the past few days for a multitude of reasons, most of them exceedingly good ones. My lost hours of sleep are beginning to take their collective toll, though, and I see myself going to bed at a reasonable hour at least tonight. A "reasonable hour" equates to "before 3AM" for me. And I have to shower first -- I've been so busy all day that I haven't had the chance. I've not been eating a whole lot either, for the record. Just haven't been that hungry. Maybe I'm entering some new phase of life.
At least, I hope so...
Wednesday, February 22, 2012
The Monte Carlo Story
Spring semester: day twenty-seven
This is my car. I love my car.
As most of you know, it is a 1996 Monte Carlo Z34, 3.4L DOHC V6, 215hp engine, automatic transmission. Super-fast, despite a large number of cosmetic and a few mechanical issues. I call it "The Decepticon," as it sports a large Decepticon logo on the hood. I also refer to it as a "she," because, after all, I'm a guy and this car is my baby.
I have owned this car since last June, when I purchased it for $500 (the last of my tax refund money from last year). She is one of the few things I own outright, and one of the few things that nobody can ever take from me. Since I bought her, she has been incredibly reliable for a car of her age and a car with her problems (she needs new spark plugs, an oil change, new tires, a coolant flush, etc etc). I have put over 3,000 miles on her since June, almost all miles from driving back and forth to school every day.
And as of last night, I was pretty sure she was trying to commit ritual seppuku.
I will tell this story to you now, of course, but I will also preface it (because I know I haven't written here in a long time) with the fact that I've had a lot of personal ups and downs in my life over the past few weeks, and that's why I haven't written here. Honestly, however, I've been incredibly happy for the past several days, with no signs of that happiness and contentment going away anytime soon. I'm telling you this because I don't want my readers (who are mostly my family and friends) to worry about me. I'm wonderful. Just worry about the car.
Anyway.
Yesterday was a typical Tuesday. Got up, drove to school, taught my classes, fulfilled my office hours and went to class, and came home. The coming home was the really bad part.
It's approximately 24 miles from my driveway to the parking lot at Flat State University and vice versa, give or take a tenth of a mile or so. It's a straight-stretch drive for 90% of it, up and down Interstate 135. While I do like to speed a little (yes, I admit this), the drive isn't particularly taxing on the car. At least I don't think so, anyway. She's been a daily driver with no real issues since June, even with her problems.
About halfway home last night, I noticed that my lights were dimmer than usual. As in, at about half-power. That's not a good thing, I thought. Then, on my dashboard, the "volts" light came on. Oh, so not good. This had never happened before in all the months I've been driving the car on a daily or almost-daily basis.
Almost immediately, the car began to overheat. Quickly. A lot. Like, the temperature gauge redlined within three or four minutes, and the "hot" light lit up on my dashboard too. Shit. Shitshitshit.
I pulled off at the nearest exit and parked on the side of a gravel country road. I was easily ten or eleven miles from home, still, at this point. I turned the car off completely and popped the hood. The car's cooling fan was still running even though the car was off, as some vehicles have that running automatically even with the car off to cool down the engine until it reaches a certain temperature (it does kick off after a while, obviously). I was shaking. I was scared. I've never had this happen in a car I've been driving. Something was quite obviously wrong, because even in the extreme temperatures of last summer -- close to 110 every day -- the car never overheated. Ever. In fact, she barely had the temperature gauge run higher than about 150 or so, and that was on the super-hot days.
I waited for the fan to kick off, pacing back and forth at the side of the car, examining my options in my head. There's a rest stop seven miles from my house, and it was two or three miles away from me at that point. If I could get it running again and it started heating up really bad that quickly, I could stop there, call a towing service from one of their phone books (one of the only remaining places on the planet where phone books are still really, really useful), and get a tow to a shop and a ride home. But, more than anything else, I wanted the car to make it home. Just so that no matter what else happened, at least I'd be home and could deal with it from there, in my natural environment, where I could take care of things myself.
I started the car again after about ten minutes of waiting. She fired up immediately with no problem, the lights were strong, and the "volts" and "hot" lights were off. She seemed normal.
For about a minute or so.
Then the "volts" light came back on and the lights dimmed again. I turned her around in an attempt to get back onto the interstate, only to find that my power steering was intermittently going in and out as well. This was not good. However, she had cooled down, and wasn't overheating yet. So, I put my faith in her and got back on the interstate. And I drove very, very slowly. Like, 45 or so. She slowly heated up again, but not to the redline. Power steering kept going in and out. Accelerator wouldn't send a lot of power to the engine, and when it did it felt like it was in rolling spurts of short bursts of energy. Her temperature didn't begin to redline again until I was past the rest area, and when it did, I let her coast for a few hundred yards until the "hot" light went back off. Once I was past the rest area, there wasn't really any turning back -- Newton was about four miles away, and I always get off at the first Newton exit. I kept her speed really low, kept her between 45 and 55 most of the time, just coasting sometimes but desperately trying to get to town. It was the longest and most frantic, palpitation-inducing four miles of driving I've ever done.
Finally, I got her to the Newton exit, got her off the road, and onto the city streets, heart beating really fast in fear, saying things like Fuckfuckfuckfuck over and over under my breath like some sort of automotive mantra. A few moments later, as I was desperately trying to go as slowly, yet as quickly, as possible to get home, the "hot" light turned off again. I crept down the city streets until I made it home, going about 20 the entire way. When I pulled into my driveway, I felt so much relief. So much. I'd made it home. No matter what problems the car had, I'd made it home. I immediately turned her off and popped the hood again, so that her overheating engine could cool down. The automatic fan ran for about ten minutes after the car was off, during which time I checked the coolant levels (seemed fine) and added a little more, also adding the rest of a quart of oil to the engine as well in hopes that would help. Nothing under the hood looked amiss -- no smoking, nothing appeared to be broken, no belts appeared to be off-track or off-kilter. The engine, for all intents and purposes, looked normal. Yes, it smelled hot, but that's because it was hot. But then again, it was dark. And it's hard to see anything under my balcony (where I park the car) when it's dark, even with the outside lights on. So, to my view, everything appeared normal.
Once I was sure the car wasn't going to burst into flames or anything like that, I went inside. I was, well, shaken, for lack of a better term. My heart was beating very fast in nervousness and fear, and I was really twitchy. I wanted to know what was wrong with my car. And now that I was home, my head started going through all sorts of possible scenarios.
By the way, if you own one, never Google "monte carlo + overheating + volts" because the results will absolutely make you ten times more paranoid.
Anyway, I knew that whatever was wrong with my babycar (yes, I call her my "babycar," stop looking at me like that) had to be serious. This wasn't an isolated incident. It was something that had to immediately be taken care of. Almost at once, I emailed my students and told them my office hours would be canceled today. I also emailed those in charge of various sections of departments or classes at school and told them I would be unable to make it in. I knew, instinctively, that whatever was wrong wasn't going to be able to be fixed in the span of a few hours, so I would most certainly miss class and not even go to campus at all today.
After that was done, I talked to two friends and told them what was going on, and one of them suggested that it might be a belt issue, because she'd just had that fixed on her car and it was giving her much the same symptoms out of the blue. If one of the bigger belts goes out, apparently it'll screw the entire car's mechanisms. Hm. Strange. I mean, it makes sense of course, but because of the "volts" light being on, I was worried about the battery a little as well as the alternator possibly being the culprit. Of the two, I was more worried about the alternator. The battery, at least, I know is new. The car's previous owner had put a new battery into the car less than a month before I purchased it. So that left the alternator as a possible culprit, along with the aforementioned belt(s).
I did not, of course, want it to be the alternator -- though that would generally be a simple fix. Alternators are expensive, in case you didn't know. On specialized models of cars like mine -- the Z34 version of the Monte Carlo -- they tend to be even more expensive. The belts are at least cheap and fairly easy to replace, and they should be replaced every once in a while anyway.
So, after that was done, around 10PM, I began Googling auto repair places in town. There are only two that do any substantial engine work, which I figured is what I needed. The first one I took the car to about a month after I bought it, and they told me that it was going to be $400 to get spark plugs replaced. Both of them have online contact forms/requests for service appointments, which was the only way I could reach them between 10PM and the morning -- and possibly have an appointment waiting for me as soon as I woke up. So, I contacted both of them. I was fully prepared to have to spend $1,000 on this car to fix it, even though I only paid $500 for it. I would not have had a choice -- living alone in Newton and making graduate student money, I simply cannot quickly buy a new car, and I must have a working vehicle that will get me from home to Wichita and back three (sometimes four) days a week. Because of this I also sent one of those "possible desperate pleas for money" emails to my parents, even though at this point all of my readers should know how much I absolutely hate asking anyone for help, even though I know most people in my life would provide it very quickly if they knew I was in need. Most of all, I hate begging my parents for anything. They raised me, they provided for me for so many years that I feel really guilty about it. I'm almost thirty years old, and it makes me feel like a huge leech or mooch.
Then I stayed up really late, knowing I didn't have to go in this morning, and finally fell asleep -- taking my phone to bed with me in case I were to receive a call from one of the body shops. I found a third one and sent them an email when I awoke around 10, as well, making my morning coffee and trying to wake up. The events of the car trip home last night seemed so long ago, so far away, yet I still knew I had to deal with it today. Which sucked, but still.
Around 11 or so I got a reply email from the third body shop I contacted. I never heard back from the others, by the way. The tech told me that by the symptoms, it sounded like I'd blown a belt, or that one had come loose and was flapping about, and could possibly be the one which ran the water pump (which would explain why the car was overheating). He set up an appointment for 2PM and told me to bring it in; if that was the problem, he could more than likely fix it today. This, of course, made me ecstatic, regardless of how much the repairs might have ended up costing me. So, I took a shower and got dressed, and went downstairs to leave around 1:10 or so.
Here, of course, was the real test. I still did not know what was wrong with the car, at all. In fact, I didn't even know if it would start, much less make the four miles or so to the repair shop. For all I knew, if it were the alternator, I could turn the key and nothing would happen whatsoever. If I had blown yet another spark plug instead, it could be just as bad. It could start up, run fine for half the trip to the shop, and then die on me in the middle of Newton's main street. If I'd blown a head gasket, then the rest of the drive home probably did damage enough. All sorts of different scenarios were running through my mind, is what I'm saying -- I wasn't sure what would or could happen.
I started the car. She started just fine, just like normal. And no lights came on the dashboard. This was a plus. I paused for a moment, and as my hand left the wheel to shift the car into reverse, the "volts" light came on again. Well, here goes nothing, I thought. Let's just get her there and see what they say.
I drove carefully, slowly, through downtown Newton, hitting what seemed to be every stoplight. Of course, this made me super-apprehensive, especially as with each stoplight and the longer the car was running, the temperature gauge slowly crept up a little further. Also, of course, the power steering wasn't working at all after I backed out of the driveway, which made the drive that much more harrowing.
I did make it, though, in about fifteen minutes, with the temperature gauge slightly to the right of the halfway point -- nowhere near overheating, but still much hotter than the car normally runs. I parked, went inside, and gave them my information before handing over the key and sitting in the waiting room for about an hour while they evaluated things. Occasionally I would flip through one of the many magazines there, but it was just me and nobody else. Every once in a while someone who seemed to be one of the shop's "regular customers" came in, made small talk with the manager guy who had emailed me and had been working with me, and then left.
I also noticed that it looked to be a rather high-end repair shop -- not only did I see a pristine 1968 Ford Galaxie 500, but another guy was having his DeTomaso Pantera worked on. No, I'm not kidding. I've also never seen one of those in person until today. Who would've guessed that someone in Newton owned one? They're pretty rare cars.
Finally, he came out and told me "Well, we figured out what's wrong with your car..."
"Oh?" I asked. "How bad is it?"
"Well, like I thought before," he said, "it was indeed a belt problem."
This made me relieved. By a lot. The rest of the conversation followed as such, to the best of my memory:
"But it's not just the belt, it's the serpentine belt, and the belt tensioner. The belt tensioner went bad -- it burned out completely. It got hot, and melted the belt itself."
Okay, that's bad, but not incredibly, kill-the-car bad.
"Anyway," he continued, "Since that belt turns pretty much everything, nothing inside the engine was moving. That's why the car was overheating; the water pump wasn't running, and why your power steering was out. The good news is that it's not really expensive and it's pretty easy to fix once we take out the old tensioner and put in a new one, but..."
He paused. I got the feeling that the other shoe was about to drop here any second now.
"Well, you have the 3.4L engine. The only one we have is for the 3.1L engine in those model years, and we've checked...there's not a single one in town."
At this point I knew yep, my classes are going to be canceled tomorrow. No doubt.
"However, we're getting one brought one in here, and we'll be able to put it on tomorrow. We move things really fast here; we don't like to make people wait on their vehicles any longer than they have to. If we had the part today we could put it on now and you could drive 'er home."
Through the plate window behind him, I could see the mighty Decepticon in the garage with her hood up, and a tech installing what looked like a new belt already.
"That's great," I said. "What a relief. I didn't know what it was. To me, it could've been anything from a bad alternator to a blown head gasket. I've just never had that happen to a car I was driving before, so I apologize if I seemed a little too nervous before or a little too relieved now compared to some of your other customers."
"Oh no, it's okay. If it were an alternator, we'd be looking at about $800 worth of parts and labor. Especially on a car like yours, because the alternator on yours is waaaaay back underneath everything else. You almost have to take apart the entire engine to get to it."
As an aside, I may have mentioned here before that the engine in my Monte Carlo is widely considered to be one of the absolute worst engineering designs in GM's history. To fit an engine that size and that powerful (again, 215hp) under that car's hood, GM sacrificed a lot of accessibility in order to cram it all in. Hence why the battery is underneath the washer fluid tank, and the washer fluid tank has to be completely detached and removed to change the battery, then replaced. It's a pretty reliable engine -- I mean, look at mine, with 220k+ miles on it -- but it's just an awful design, and really hard to work on for even most regular maintenance, like spark plugs.
"But no," he went on, "your alternator is fine, and this won't be that expensive to fix -- but still expensive. We're looking at $287.09 here."
The first words out of my mouth were, seriously, "Are you serious? That's fantastic!" which I'm sure shocked him a little, judging by the look on his face. "No, seriously," I continued, "I was expecting this to be something like $800 or $900 to fix, so I'm glad it's not that bad. That's a relief."
Mind you, $287.09 is not a small amount of money, especially when I have to pay the rent this week as well, and just paid my credit card bill and cable bill earlier this week. And it is an unexpected expense that, just a little over a month ago, would've been my death knell. Right now, however? If it puts my car back on the road and keeps it running with no other major problems for the moment? I'll take what I can get. I'll pay it and deal with it. My Monte Carlo is my lifeline and I desperately need it to last me at least until I graduate, if possible. After that, I don't know what/where I'll be in life, but I need it at least for that year-and-change I have left. So I'll do whatever I can to keep her running, piece by piece. If she needs a belt and belt tensioner, then that's what she gets. I do still have to do all of the other work on her as well, but right now that's not really an option until I get my tax refunds. Believe me, a very large chunk of those will be sunk into car repairs and upkeep.
I thanked him, shook his hand, and waited for a free tech to give me a ride home. I pick up the car tomorrow and pay the bill. How I'll get back up there remains to be seen; the tech said if they had the ability to let him go for a few minutes, he could come back and pick me up again. If not, it looks like I'll be getting about four miles' worth of walking exercise tomorrow when it's done and I can pay the bill and take her home.
But, of course, who knows when that will be. Once I got back home (which is weird to look at without a Monte Carlo in the driveway or garage for once) I canceled my classes for tomorrow via email, and later this evening I sent an email to the office admins in case they wanted to put signs on the doors of my classrooms in the morning, just in case not all of my students check their email. They usually do. I hate canceling my classes, but there's enough wiggle room in the spring semester to where I can move a few things around a little bit and keep them all on the same page. It wasn't until I'd done this to where I realized I could've just emailed my officemate and asked him to do the same thing, as he teaches in the same building -- if not the same room I do -- at 8AM. But oh well. I still want to go by the book for everything, lest anything happen. It's very, very rare that I cancel any of my classes on the spur of the moment. I think this is only the second time I've had to do so since I've been a GTA, and the first was because I was deathly ill with a sinus/ear infection close to the end of my first semester.
Of course, I missed my editing class today, too. I asked my friends to get extra copies of the handouts/reading assignment for me, so that I can play a little catch-up when I get the chance, but I have no clue if anyone did. If they did, they haven't told me. Oh well. Can't do much about it until I get back to campus next week.
So that's the Monte Carlo story. It could've been a lot worse, but as it is, it wasn't that great. Still, I'm grateful that it wasn't a blown head gasket or blown alternator, which would've cost a lot more. And I think the situation probably raised my blood pressure by a good ten points or more over the past day or so. But, on the good side (due to canceled classes), I get to extend my weekend a few days longer than it normally would be, and I have a lot of plans for this weekend. There's a lot of work that must be done around the house, the weather's been gorgeous (high today? 73, at the highest I saw it here), and I can get a little relaxation time in.
By the way, next week I don't have any classes of my own. Both of them have been canceled due to the AWP Conference going on next week, a conference which about 80% of the department (no kidding) is attending. So, all I will have to be there for are the little things like my office hours and Writing Center hour, practicum, etc. Oh, and teaching my classes, of course. Less time on campus every day makes me happy, and I'm already becoming pretty happy in my life right now -- despite things like the car problems.
This is my car. I love my car.
As most of you know, it is a 1996 Monte Carlo Z34, 3.4L DOHC V6, 215hp engine, automatic transmission. Super-fast, despite a large number of cosmetic and a few mechanical issues. I call it "The Decepticon," as it sports a large Decepticon logo on the hood. I also refer to it as a "she," because, after all, I'm a guy and this car is my baby.
I have owned this car since last June, when I purchased it for $500 (the last of my tax refund money from last year). She is one of the few things I own outright, and one of the few things that nobody can ever take from me. Since I bought her, she has been incredibly reliable for a car of her age and a car with her problems (she needs new spark plugs, an oil change, new tires, a coolant flush, etc etc). I have put over 3,000 miles on her since June, almost all miles from driving back and forth to school every day.
And as of last night, I was pretty sure she was trying to commit ritual seppuku.
I will tell this story to you now, of course, but I will also preface it (because I know I haven't written here in a long time) with the fact that I've had a lot of personal ups and downs in my life over the past few weeks, and that's why I haven't written here. Honestly, however, I've been incredibly happy for the past several days, with no signs of that happiness and contentment going away anytime soon. I'm telling you this because I don't want my readers (who are mostly my family and friends) to worry about me. I'm wonderful. Just worry about the car.
Anyway.
Yesterday was a typical Tuesday. Got up, drove to school, taught my classes, fulfilled my office hours and went to class, and came home. The coming home was the really bad part.
It's approximately 24 miles from my driveway to the parking lot at Flat State University and vice versa, give or take a tenth of a mile or so. It's a straight-stretch drive for 90% of it, up and down Interstate 135. While I do like to speed a little (yes, I admit this), the drive isn't particularly taxing on the car. At least I don't think so, anyway. She's been a daily driver with no real issues since June, even with her problems.
About halfway home last night, I noticed that my lights were dimmer than usual. As in, at about half-power. That's not a good thing, I thought. Then, on my dashboard, the "volts" light came on. Oh, so not good. This had never happened before in all the months I've been driving the car on a daily or almost-daily basis.
Almost immediately, the car began to overheat. Quickly. A lot. Like, the temperature gauge redlined within three or four minutes, and the "hot" light lit up on my dashboard too. Shit. Shitshitshit.
I pulled off at the nearest exit and parked on the side of a gravel country road. I was easily ten or eleven miles from home, still, at this point. I turned the car off completely and popped the hood. The car's cooling fan was still running even though the car was off, as some vehicles have that running automatically even with the car off to cool down the engine until it reaches a certain temperature (it does kick off after a while, obviously). I was shaking. I was scared. I've never had this happen in a car I've been driving. Something was quite obviously wrong, because even in the extreme temperatures of last summer -- close to 110 every day -- the car never overheated. Ever. In fact, she barely had the temperature gauge run higher than about 150 or so, and that was on the super-hot days.
I waited for the fan to kick off, pacing back and forth at the side of the car, examining my options in my head. There's a rest stop seven miles from my house, and it was two or three miles away from me at that point. If I could get it running again and it started heating up really bad that quickly, I could stop there, call a towing service from one of their phone books (one of the only remaining places on the planet where phone books are still really, really useful), and get a tow to a shop and a ride home. But, more than anything else, I wanted the car to make it home. Just so that no matter what else happened, at least I'd be home and could deal with it from there, in my natural environment, where I could take care of things myself.
I started the car again after about ten minutes of waiting. She fired up immediately with no problem, the lights were strong, and the "volts" and "hot" lights were off. She seemed normal.
For about a minute or so.
Then the "volts" light came back on and the lights dimmed again. I turned her around in an attempt to get back onto the interstate, only to find that my power steering was intermittently going in and out as well. This was not good. However, she had cooled down, and wasn't overheating yet. So, I put my faith in her and got back on the interstate. And I drove very, very slowly. Like, 45 or so. She slowly heated up again, but not to the redline. Power steering kept going in and out. Accelerator wouldn't send a lot of power to the engine, and when it did it felt like it was in rolling spurts of short bursts of energy. Her temperature didn't begin to redline again until I was past the rest area, and when it did, I let her coast for a few hundred yards until the "hot" light went back off. Once I was past the rest area, there wasn't really any turning back -- Newton was about four miles away, and I always get off at the first Newton exit. I kept her speed really low, kept her between 45 and 55 most of the time, just coasting sometimes but desperately trying to get to town. It was the longest and most frantic, palpitation-inducing four miles of driving I've ever done.
Finally, I got her to the Newton exit, got her off the road, and onto the city streets, heart beating really fast in fear, saying things like Fuckfuckfuckfuck over and over under my breath like some sort of automotive mantra. A few moments later, as I was desperately trying to go as slowly, yet as quickly, as possible to get home, the "hot" light turned off again. I crept down the city streets until I made it home, going about 20 the entire way. When I pulled into my driveway, I felt so much relief. So much. I'd made it home. No matter what problems the car had, I'd made it home. I immediately turned her off and popped the hood again, so that her overheating engine could cool down. The automatic fan ran for about ten minutes after the car was off, during which time I checked the coolant levels (seemed fine) and added a little more, also adding the rest of a quart of oil to the engine as well in hopes that would help. Nothing under the hood looked amiss -- no smoking, nothing appeared to be broken, no belts appeared to be off-track or off-kilter. The engine, for all intents and purposes, looked normal. Yes, it smelled hot, but that's because it was hot. But then again, it was dark. And it's hard to see anything under my balcony (where I park the car) when it's dark, even with the outside lights on. So, to my view, everything appeared normal.
Once I was sure the car wasn't going to burst into flames or anything like that, I went inside. I was, well, shaken, for lack of a better term. My heart was beating very fast in nervousness and fear, and I was really twitchy. I wanted to know what was wrong with my car. And now that I was home, my head started going through all sorts of possible scenarios.
By the way, if you own one, never Google "monte carlo + overheating + volts" because the results will absolutely make you ten times more paranoid.
Anyway, I knew that whatever was wrong with my babycar (yes, I call her my "babycar," stop looking at me like that) had to be serious. This wasn't an isolated incident. It was something that had to immediately be taken care of. Almost at once, I emailed my students and told them my office hours would be canceled today. I also emailed those in charge of various sections of departments or classes at school and told them I would be unable to make it in. I knew, instinctively, that whatever was wrong wasn't going to be able to be fixed in the span of a few hours, so I would most certainly miss class and not even go to campus at all today.
After that was done, I talked to two friends and told them what was going on, and one of them suggested that it might be a belt issue, because she'd just had that fixed on her car and it was giving her much the same symptoms out of the blue. If one of the bigger belts goes out, apparently it'll screw the entire car's mechanisms. Hm. Strange. I mean, it makes sense of course, but because of the "volts" light being on, I was worried about the battery a little as well as the alternator possibly being the culprit. Of the two, I was more worried about the alternator. The battery, at least, I know is new. The car's previous owner had put a new battery into the car less than a month before I purchased it. So that left the alternator as a possible culprit, along with the aforementioned belt(s).
I did not, of course, want it to be the alternator -- though that would generally be a simple fix. Alternators are expensive, in case you didn't know. On specialized models of cars like mine -- the Z34 version of the Monte Carlo -- they tend to be even more expensive. The belts are at least cheap and fairly easy to replace, and they should be replaced every once in a while anyway.
So, after that was done, around 10PM, I began Googling auto repair places in town. There are only two that do any substantial engine work, which I figured is what I needed. The first one I took the car to about a month after I bought it, and they told me that it was going to be $400 to get spark plugs replaced. Both of them have online contact forms/requests for service appointments, which was the only way I could reach them between 10PM and the morning -- and possibly have an appointment waiting for me as soon as I woke up. So, I contacted both of them. I was fully prepared to have to spend $1,000 on this car to fix it, even though I only paid $500 for it. I would not have had a choice -- living alone in Newton and making graduate student money, I simply cannot quickly buy a new car, and I must have a working vehicle that will get me from home to Wichita and back three (sometimes four) days a week. Because of this I also sent one of those "possible desperate pleas for money" emails to my parents, even though at this point all of my readers should know how much I absolutely hate asking anyone for help, even though I know most people in my life would provide it very quickly if they knew I was in need. Most of all, I hate begging my parents for anything. They raised me, they provided for me for so many years that I feel really guilty about it. I'm almost thirty years old, and it makes me feel like a huge leech or mooch.
Then I stayed up really late, knowing I didn't have to go in this morning, and finally fell asleep -- taking my phone to bed with me in case I were to receive a call from one of the body shops. I found a third one and sent them an email when I awoke around 10, as well, making my morning coffee and trying to wake up. The events of the car trip home last night seemed so long ago, so far away, yet I still knew I had to deal with it today. Which sucked, but still.
Around 11 or so I got a reply email from the third body shop I contacted. I never heard back from the others, by the way. The tech told me that by the symptoms, it sounded like I'd blown a belt, or that one had come loose and was flapping about, and could possibly be the one which ran the water pump (which would explain why the car was overheating). He set up an appointment for 2PM and told me to bring it in; if that was the problem, he could more than likely fix it today. This, of course, made me ecstatic, regardless of how much the repairs might have ended up costing me. So, I took a shower and got dressed, and went downstairs to leave around 1:10 or so.
Here, of course, was the real test. I still did not know what was wrong with the car, at all. In fact, I didn't even know if it would start, much less make the four miles or so to the repair shop. For all I knew, if it were the alternator, I could turn the key and nothing would happen whatsoever. If I had blown yet another spark plug instead, it could be just as bad. It could start up, run fine for half the trip to the shop, and then die on me in the middle of Newton's main street. If I'd blown a head gasket, then the rest of the drive home probably did damage enough. All sorts of different scenarios were running through my mind, is what I'm saying -- I wasn't sure what would or could happen.
I started the car. She started just fine, just like normal. And no lights came on the dashboard. This was a plus. I paused for a moment, and as my hand left the wheel to shift the car into reverse, the "volts" light came on again. Well, here goes nothing, I thought. Let's just get her there and see what they say.
I drove carefully, slowly, through downtown Newton, hitting what seemed to be every stoplight. Of course, this made me super-apprehensive, especially as with each stoplight and the longer the car was running, the temperature gauge slowly crept up a little further. Also, of course, the power steering wasn't working at all after I backed out of the driveway, which made the drive that much more harrowing.
I did make it, though, in about fifteen minutes, with the temperature gauge slightly to the right of the halfway point -- nowhere near overheating, but still much hotter than the car normally runs. I parked, went inside, and gave them my information before handing over the key and sitting in the waiting room for about an hour while they evaluated things. Occasionally I would flip through one of the many magazines there, but it was just me and nobody else. Every once in a while someone who seemed to be one of the shop's "regular customers" came in, made small talk with the manager guy who had emailed me and had been working with me, and then left.
I also noticed that it looked to be a rather high-end repair shop -- not only did I see a pristine 1968 Ford Galaxie 500, but another guy was having his DeTomaso Pantera worked on. No, I'm not kidding. I've also never seen one of those in person until today. Who would've guessed that someone in Newton owned one? They're pretty rare cars.
Finally, he came out and told me "Well, we figured out what's wrong with your car..."
"Oh?" I asked. "How bad is it?"
"Well, like I thought before," he said, "it was indeed a belt problem."
This made me relieved. By a lot. The rest of the conversation followed as such, to the best of my memory:
"But it's not just the belt, it's the serpentine belt, and the belt tensioner. The belt tensioner went bad -- it burned out completely. It got hot, and melted the belt itself."
Okay, that's bad, but not incredibly, kill-the-car bad.
"Anyway," he continued, "Since that belt turns pretty much everything, nothing inside the engine was moving. That's why the car was overheating; the water pump wasn't running, and why your power steering was out. The good news is that it's not really expensive and it's pretty easy to fix once we take out the old tensioner and put in a new one, but..."
He paused. I got the feeling that the other shoe was about to drop here any second now.
"Well, you have the 3.4L engine. The only one we have is for the 3.1L engine in those model years, and we've checked...there's not a single one in town."
At this point I knew yep, my classes are going to be canceled tomorrow. No doubt.
"However, we're getting one brought one in here, and we'll be able to put it on tomorrow. We move things really fast here; we don't like to make people wait on their vehicles any longer than they have to. If we had the part today we could put it on now and you could drive 'er home."
Through the plate window behind him, I could see the mighty Decepticon in the garage with her hood up, and a tech installing what looked like a new belt already.
"That's great," I said. "What a relief. I didn't know what it was. To me, it could've been anything from a bad alternator to a blown head gasket. I've just never had that happen to a car I was driving before, so I apologize if I seemed a little too nervous before or a little too relieved now compared to some of your other customers."
"Oh no, it's okay. If it were an alternator, we'd be looking at about $800 worth of parts and labor. Especially on a car like yours, because the alternator on yours is waaaaay back underneath everything else. You almost have to take apart the entire engine to get to it."
As an aside, I may have mentioned here before that the engine in my Monte Carlo is widely considered to be one of the absolute worst engineering designs in GM's history. To fit an engine that size and that powerful (again, 215hp) under that car's hood, GM sacrificed a lot of accessibility in order to cram it all in. Hence why the battery is underneath the washer fluid tank, and the washer fluid tank has to be completely detached and removed to change the battery, then replaced. It's a pretty reliable engine -- I mean, look at mine, with 220k+ miles on it -- but it's just an awful design, and really hard to work on for even most regular maintenance, like spark plugs.
"But no," he went on, "your alternator is fine, and this won't be that expensive to fix -- but still expensive. We're looking at $287.09 here."
The first words out of my mouth were, seriously, "Are you serious? That's fantastic!" which I'm sure shocked him a little, judging by the look on his face. "No, seriously," I continued, "I was expecting this to be something like $800 or $900 to fix, so I'm glad it's not that bad. That's a relief."
Mind you, $287.09 is not a small amount of money, especially when I have to pay the rent this week as well, and just paid my credit card bill and cable bill earlier this week. And it is an unexpected expense that, just a little over a month ago, would've been my death knell. Right now, however? If it puts my car back on the road and keeps it running with no other major problems for the moment? I'll take what I can get. I'll pay it and deal with it. My Monte Carlo is my lifeline and I desperately need it to last me at least until I graduate, if possible. After that, I don't know what/where I'll be in life, but I need it at least for that year-and-change I have left. So I'll do whatever I can to keep her running, piece by piece. If she needs a belt and belt tensioner, then that's what she gets. I do still have to do all of the other work on her as well, but right now that's not really an option until I get my tax refunds. Believe me, a very large chunk of those will be sunk into car repairs and upkeep.
I thanked him, shook his hand, and waited for a free tech to give me a ride home. I pick up the car tomorrow and pay the bill. How I'll get back up there remains to be seen; the tech said if they had the ability to let him go for a few minutes, he could come back and pick me up again. If not, it looks like I'll be getting about four miles' worth of walking exercise tomorrow when it's done and I can pay the bill and take her home.
But, of course, who knows when that will be. Once I got back home (which is weird to look at without a Monte Carlo in the driveway or garage for once) I canceled my classes for tomorrow via email, and later this evening I sent an email to the office admins in case they wanted to put signs on the doors of my classrooms in the morning, just in case not all of my students check their email. They usually do. I hate canceling my classes, but there's enough wiggle room in the spring semester to where I can move a few things around a little bit and keep them all on the same page. It wasn't until I'd done this to where I realized I could've just emailed my officemate and asked him to do the same thing, as he teaches in the same building -- if not the same room I do -- at 8AM. But oh well. I still want to go by the book for everything, lest anything happen. It's very, very rare that I cancel any of my classes on the spur of the moment. I think this is only the second time I've had to do so since I've been a GTA, and the first was because I was deathly ill with a sinus/ear infection close to the end of my first semester.
Of course, I missed my editing class today, too. I asked my friends to get extra copies of the handouts/reading assignment for me, so that I can play a little catch-up when I get the chance, but I have no clue if anyone did. If they did, they haven't told me. Oh well. Can't do much about it until I get back to campus next week.
So that's the Monte Carlo story. It could've been a lot worse, but as it is, it wasn't that great. Still, I'm grateful that it wasn't a blown head gasket or blown alternator, which would've cost a lot more. And I think the situation probably raised my blood pressure by a good ten points or more over the past day or so. But, on the good side (due to canceled classes), I get to extend my weekend a few days longer than it normally would be, and I have a lot of plans for this weekend. There's a lot of work that must be done around the house, the weather's been gorgeous (high today? 73, at the highest I saw it here), and I can get a little relaxation time in.
By the way, next week I don't have any classes of my own. Both of them have been canceled due to the AWP Conference going on next week, a conference which about 80% of the department (no kidding) is attending. So, all I will have to be there for are the little things like my office hours and Writing Center hour, practicum, etc. Oh, and teaching my classes, of course. Less time on campus every day makes me happy, and I'm already becoming pretty happy in my life right now -- despite things like the car problems.
Sunday, February 12, 2012
The Long, Cold March of Winter, Part II
It is rapidly approaching 3AM on Saturday night/Sunday morning, and I'm still awake.
Why?
Well, aside from the fact that I always sleep weird hours on the weekends anyway, I just spent my last 3-4 hours grading my first class's set of papers. Normally it wouldn't take that long, but as it is their first paper for me, I must go through every one of them and mark every single error. Not only did it take a lot of time, but I used the remainder of my red ink pen and burned through half of a second. Yeah. Not kidding.
This is typical, though, for a first paper from any class I've taught. Because of that, I'm not really concerned.
Sadie, my little Russian Blue cat -- the smallest of my three cats, and by far the dumbest and most skittish -- has been in a tiff with Pete for the past two days; she growls and hisses at him whenever he comes near her, and occasionally they'll get in a knock-down, drag-out rolling furball fight.
This sort of tiff isn't incredibly unusual; it's happened two or three times over the five years I've had the cats and they've all lived together, but usually it's both girls (Sadie and Maggie) ganging up on Pete. After a few days they all snap out of it and get back to normal. I've read up on it and it's a sort of territorial and/or dominance thing, more than likely. This is, however, the first time Sadie has done it by herself, which made me wonder briefly if she was sick or something. She's not; she's generally perfectly fine around her sister Maggie, and she's just fine around me. She's also eating normally and wanting normal attention/love from me. It's just something about Pete that's been pissing her off. However, when she's growling/hissing and pissed off, she'll even growl at me or Maggie sometimes until she calms down again. To a certain extent it's really funny, but to a much larger extent it's fucking annoying, and I wish she'd just get over it already. Pete's not going anywhere, and all three of the cats will still be continuing to share a home for the rest of their lives, so my opinion is that Sadie just needs to suck it up and shut up.
For the record, even if it is a dominance thing, Petey will always be the dominant alpha of the three cats whether the other two like it or not. That's not going to change. I've read all sorts of literature like "anxiety-prone cats, even if they live together for a long time, may stop getting along and permanent separation may be necessary." When I read that, I laughed. No, cats, you're not getting your own special little rooms; you are not unique snowflakes, I thought. You're going to suck it up and continue living together just like you have your entire lives.
I need to go out to Walmart sometime tomorrow, which is a bad thing. It's a bad thing because of three different circumstances:
1.) It's Sunday.
2.) It's two days before Valentine's Day (or, as I'll refer to it this year, Black Tuesday.)
3.) There's a snowstorm primed to hit us tomorrow night.
I could have also added "and I don't get paid again for another week" to that list as well, but for the moment I'm okay with money. I'm not great, but I'm okay. I do have a $316 credit card bill to pay most, if not all of the balance of within the next two weeks, after all.
All the money on said credit card went towards gas for the Monte Carlo, by the way, with the exception of the renewal of my Amazon Prime membership ($39).
The snowstorm is problematic on a few levels. For one, it means everybody and his brother will be at Walmart emptying the shelves of everything possible, which will make the store a madhouse. I only need about five or six different things, but still, I'm not looking forward to fighting everyone off. As is customary in most Walmart stores, the one here in Newton is populated by the dregs of society, all of whom seem to be self-centered, rude white trash. However, if I want to be able to feed the cats and clean their litter box, I have to brave the dregs.
It's also problematic on the level that it's hitting at all. As you know at this point, my car needs new tires. While I can drive in some levels of ice and snow, the +/-3 inches Newton is expected to receive by Monday night isn't necessarily horrific, but it's at right about the level where driving would be iffy if the roads aren't properly treated by Tuesday morning when I have to return to school. Amusingly enough, even though this is the first real substantial snow of the winter that may occur and stick on the ground/roads for a while, the local news channels aren't going nuts about it because Wichita is only supposed to get a half-inch or so, if that. I live far enough north (22 miles north of the city) to where I'll always get more snow than Wichita will just because of the way storm systems tend to travel over the state. At least I can take solace in the fact that it's not hitting during the work week, and that tomorrow I can stick my car in the garage and leave it there again until Tuesday morning.
I sure miss those 70-ish degree days we were having about two weeks ago, though.
I've been having really weird dreams lately, none of which have been good. They're not so much nightmares as they are just strange, and they leave me a little shaken for an hour or so after I wake up. Most of the time they're dreams of things being drastically different in my life than they are now, which is why I think they're so jarring. For example, last night I had a dream that I had married a good friend of mine from back home (whose name I will not state, as I'm sure she's read this blog on occasion even if we don't talk much anymore) and we were happy, and for some reason lived in a cabin in Vermont. Now, how I could come up with a scenario like that is beyond me, but let me tell you -- when I awoke in the same house, in the same bed, with the same cats and same loneliness, that was jarring compared to the life I'd been dreaming. Like I said, when I awaken from something like that and re-enter my real life, I get this deep sense of disappointment and misery for an hour or so because I realize how boring and monotonous my real life actually is on a daily basis. It's a feeling that passes, of course, but still.
I also think it's proof that I need to get out of this state for a few days over spring break more than ever, and that my trip back home to visit my parents and Andrea during that time will be really therapeutic for me, even though it won't last long and I'll return to Kansas shortly thereafter.
The information on next year's department fellowships was sent out to all of us on Friday; the "application" for it (because it's really not much more than a writing contest) is due in about three weeks. I'll have to select my best poetry to apply for it, because this year the competition is much tougher than last year due to a much higher number of quality writers within the department. I'll write more about that as the deadline for it comes closer, of course. Hopefully I'll have a decent shot at winning it, but somehow I doubt it. Still, there's no harm in trying. Fortune favors the bold and all that.
The rest of my weekend, as I'm really only about halfway through it, will be spent grading the rest of my student papers and writing a short essay (one page) for my editing class. Monday, especially if it's really nasty/snowy, will be spent finalizing my taxes so I can call them totally done. Getting those taken care of is really important to my mental state, as it's but one more thing I have to do ASAP. Once I finish them I can renew my FAFSA as well, which should only take a few minutes. And, of course, there's the aforementioned Walmart trip and the paying of the credit card bill. I have to put new gas in the Monte Carlo, as well. Since it's been nut-numbingly cold, I'll be dressing in multiple layers when I have to leave the house. On Thursday, I even wore my leather jacket -- which should tell you how cold it's been as of late. Regardless, I'll still have to get out and do all of that stuff before the snow moves in. Which means, as it's almost 4AM, that I should get to bed soon.
Why?
Well, aside from the fact that I always sleep weird hours on the weekends anyway, I just spent my last 3-4 hours grading my first class's set of papers. Normally it wouldn't take that long, but as it is their first paper for me, I must go through every one of them and mark every single error. Not only did it take a lot of time, but I used the remainder of my red ink pen and burned through half of a second. Yeah. Not kidding.
This is typical, though, for a first paper from any class I've taught. Because of that, I'm not really concerned.
Sadie, my little Russian Blue cat -- the smallest of my three cats, and by far the dumbest and most skittish -- has been in a tiff with Pete for the past two days; she growls and hisses at him whenever he comes near her, and occasionally they'll get in a knock-down, drag-out rolling furball fight.
This sort of tiff isn't incredibly unusual; it's happened two or three times over the five years I've had the cats and they've all lived together, but usually it's both girls (Sadie and Maggie) ganging up on Pete. After a few days they all snap out of it and get back to normal. I've read up on it and it's a sort of territorial and/or dominance thing, more than likely. This is, however, the first time Sadie has done it by herself, which made me wonder briefly if she was sick or something. She's not; she's generally perfectly fine around her sister Maggie, and she's just fine around me. She's also eating normally and wanting normal attention/love from me. It's just something about Pete that's been pissing her off. However, when she's growling/hissing and pissed off, she'll even growl at me or Maggie sometimes until she calms down again. To a certain extent it's really funny, but to a much larger extent it's fucking annoying, and I wish she'd just get over it already. Pete's not going anywhere, and all three of the cats will still be continuing to share a home for the rest of their lives, so my opinion is that Sadie just needs to suck it up and shut up.
For the record, even if it is a dominance thing, Petey will always be the dominant alpha of the three cats whether the other two like it or not. That's not going to change. I've read all sorts of literature like "anxiety-prone cats, even if they live together for a long time, may stop getting along and permanent separation may be necessary." When I read that, I laughed. No, cats, you're not getting your own special little rooms; you are not unique snowflakes, I thought. You're going to suck it up and continue living together just like you have your entire lives.
I need to go out to Walmart sometime tomorrow, which is a bad thing. It's a bad thing because of three different circumstances:
1.) It's Sunday.
2.) It's two days before Valentine's Day (or, as I'll refer to it this year, Black Tuesday.)
3.) There's a snowstorm primed to hit us tomorrow night.
I could have also added "and I don't get paid again for another week" to that list as well, but for the moment I'm okay with money. I'm not great, but I'm okay. I do have a $316 credit card bill to pay most, if not all of the balance of within the next two weeks, after all.
All the money on said credit card went towards gas for the Monte Carlo, by the way, with the exception of the renewal of my Amazon Prime membership ($39).
The snowstorm is problematic on a few levels. For one, it means everybody and his brother will be at Walmart emptying the shelves of everything possible, which will make the store a madhouse. I only need about five or six different things, but still, I'm not looking forward to fighting everyone off. As is customary in most Walmart stores, the one here in Newton is populated by the dregs of society, all of whom seem to be self-centered, rude white trash. However, if I want to be able to feed the cats and clean their litter box, I have to brave the dregs.
It's also problematic on the level that it's hitting at all. As you know at this point, my car needs new tires. While I can drive in some levels of ice and snow, the +/-3 inches Newton is expected to receive by Monday night isn't necessarily horrific, but it's at right about the level where driving would be iffy if the roads aren't properly treated by Tuesday morning when I have to return to school. Amusingly enough, even though this is the first real substantial snow of the winter that may occur and stick on the ground/roads for a while, the local news channels aren't going nuts about it because Wichita is only supposed to get a half-inch or so, if that. I live far enough north (22 miles north of the city) to where I'll always get more snow than Wichita will just because of the way storm systems tend to travel over the state. At least I can take solace in the fact that it's not hitting during the work week, and that tomorrow I can stick my car in the garage and leave it there again until Tuesday morning.
I sure miss those 70-ish degree days we were having about two weeks ago, though.
I've been having really weird dreams lately, none of which have been good. They're not so much nightmares as they are just strange, and they leave me a little shaken for an hour or so after I wake up. Most of the time they're dreams of things being drastically different in my life than they are now, which is why I think they're so jarring. For example, last night I had a dream that I had married a good friend of mine from back home (whose name I will not state, as I'm sure she's read this blog on occasion even if we don't talk much anymore) and we were happy, and for some reason lived in a cabin in Vermont. Now, how I could come up with a scenario like that is beyond me, but let me tell you -- when I awoke in the same house, in the same bed, with the same cats and same loneliness, that was jarring compared to the life I'd been dreaming. Like I said, when I awaken from something like that and re-enter my real life, I get this deep sense of disappointment and misery for an hour or so because I realize how boring and monotonous my real life actually is on a daily basis. It's a feeling that passes, of course, but still.
I also think it's proof that I need to get out of this state for a few days over spring break more than ever, and that my trip back home to visit my parents and Andrea during that time will be really therapeutic for me, even though it won't last long and I'll return to Kansas shortly thereafter.
The information on next year's department fellowships was sent out to all of us on Friday; the "application" for it (because it's really not much more than a writing contest) is due in about three weeks. I'll have to select my best poetry to apply for it, because this year the competition is much tougher than last year due to a much higher number of quality writers within the department. I'll write more about that as the deadline for it comes closer, of course. Hopefully I'll have a decent shot at winning it, but somehow I doubt it. Still, there's no harm in trying. Fortune favors the bold and all that.
The rest of my weekend, as I'm really only about halfway through it, will be spent grading the rest of my student papers and writing a short essay (one page) for my editing class. Monday, especially if it's really nasty/snowy, will be spent finalizing my taxes so I can call them totally done. Getting those taken care of is really important to my mental state, as it's but one more thing I have to do ASAP. Once I finish them I can renew my FAFSA as well, which should only take a few minutes. And, of course, there's the aforementioned Walmart trip and the paying of the credit card bill. I have to put new gas in the Monte Carlo, as well. Since it's been nut-numbingly cold, I'll be dressing in multiple layers when I have to leave the house. On Thursday, I even wore my leather jacket -- which should tell you how cold it's been as of late. Regardless, I'll still have to get out and do all of that stuff before the snow moves in. Which means, as it's almost 4AM, that I should get to bed soon.
Friday, February 10, 2012
Unexpected Good Things
Spring semester: day twenty
For the haze that my work week usually is (and still is this week), there have been a few unexpected occurrences that I think can be marked down in the "good" category.
For example, surprisingly enough I've been pulled aside on no less than five occasions during the past two weeks by not only my friends and colleagues, but our esteemed professor as well (which is a big deal, yes), to be told that my poetry this semester is really good.
This, as I've alluded to (or outright said) before, is simply shocking to me. While I do take my work seriously, I've never thought I was that great and have fully admitted it in the past -- there are writers in this program who are leaps and bounds more talented than I am, writers who spend hours crafting lines, tone, line breaks, cadence, etc., and it shows in their work, which is always masterfully written and tends to speak to the proverbial soul. I'm not one of those writers. Most of my poetry is generated from a simple idea, off-the-cuff, and is laid out in lines and line breaks as I write it. Even my best poems I generally don't spend more than an hour on. In fact, some of my worst ones (well, "worst" in my opinion, anyhow) I've spent more time on than my good ones. Poetry isn't like fiction writing -- most of the time it doesn't have a plot or a story arc that it has to follow to its eventual end. There's no time or space for in-depth characterization of the speaker. It usually has to be succinct and direct, get to the point quickly, and be relate-able/understandable in some fashion all within the confines of however many lines one wants to write. I've always seen fiction as a scientific sort of art form, and likened it to the school of Arts and Sciences. It takes scientific skill and a scientific mind to write good fiction, fiction that pops. Poetry to me has always been more of the Fine Arts side of that coin -- like painting. We as poets are really painting word pictures, snapshots, in-the-moment mixed media word bursts. So yeah, it's quite different.
Yes, I realize how absolutely pretentious that sounds, though that wasn't really my intention.
But yeah, anyway, apparently a large chunk of the department likes my stuff this semester. Even my latest poem in this week's workshop packet, which -- and I'd like to make this clear -- I hated, and wrote in about ten minutes.
Sometimes I think that this is all some sort of coma dream, and I'll eventually wake up and realize it's still December -- and I'll have to do all of this again.
I do have a new piece I'm working on now, though, and I really like it. That probably means that next week I'll submit it to the workshop and everyone will hate it. Oh well.
At this point, most of us have now met with our visiting writer this semester, a poet about my Dad's age who is also a huge Wilco fan and a blues guitarist. I can dig it. I met with him yesterday for about an hour or so, and will be meeting with him every Tuesday through the rest of the month at 3:45 (it's one of the few times that both of us were available, as both of us have packed/limited schedules). He did a reading at the library and then an informal, open-to-everyone talk yesterday afternoon, but I didn't go. I don't usually go to these sorts of readings or talks on principle -- for one, I'm generally not interested, but for two, I don't really want my opinion of a visiting poet's style or subject matter in his/her writing to subconsciously taint or otherwise subtly influence my thoughts regarding the feedback I would receive from him/her in our one-on-one meetings. With professors or visiting writers I've had who have published books, poetry or otherwise, I try to avoid their work as much as possible until after I've taken a class with them; I want the class environment to be just that -- a class environment. Even with the visiting writer, which isn't so much a class as it is an intensive, one-on-one workshop that lasts for a month.
The only exception to this rule has been with our esteemed poetry professor, who puts out a new book every year or two. I'd read (and still continue to read) all of his work regularly, as all of us at this point know him on a personal level as well as on an academic level. After my time working with a professor or visiting writer is over, though, I'm generally interested in seeing what they've written. Just not before or during that time.
Another reason I didn't go to the reading/talk was that I had already been stuck on campus for three hours longer than I normally would have been (the journal staff had a meeting I needed to attend), and I really just wanted to go the fuck home afterwards.
Once I got home, I ordered three pizzas, two 2L bottles of Mountain Dew, a big box of chickenstrips and an order of breadsticks from Papa John's -- using my free Super Bowl pizza code as well as a "family meal deal" thing they do -- for $36 total. I now have enough pizza to last me over a week and am considering freezing some of it in Ziploc bags so that I can make it last. This negates any real need for me to go grocery shopping for myself for the next week or so as well, aside from the barest of essentials I might need (i.e. toilet paper, cat food, coffee, cigarettes, etc). Two of the pizzas I haven't even touched yet.
Annnnnnnd the next thing I remember is waking up on the couch at 3:45AM.
Seriously.
On Thursday afternoons/evenings, I get really tired after I come home and eat, regardless of how much sleep I got the night before. Wednesday night I went to bed around 9 (yes, I know, early) and got up at 5, so it's not like I was sleep deprived. Still, there's something in my body/brain chemistry that tells me hey Brandon, you don't have to get up and do anything tomorrow -- it's your weekend, so you're going to sleep. And then I pass out. I do vaguely remember going to lay down on the couch, because Pete (my big male cat) jumped up on my chest and laid down with me. This was, approximately, 7PM or shortly after. This means that I was passed out -- unconscious, dead to the world, and completely un-wake-able -- for almost nine hours. On a small, two-seater loveseat couch from the 1970s, with my feet hanging over the arm on one end. Don't ask me why or how I could do this -- I don't even know myself. It's not exactly comfortable. Being a grad student functioning on short snippets of sleep here and there throughout the work week has apparently given me the ability to fall asleep anywhere, at any time, and in any position -- comfortable or otherwise. I consider this a useful life skill, and/or possibly the most useful thing that I might get out of grad school as a whole.
There have been other good things going on as well, but they're all little things. I did get a load of student papers yesterday, but at first glance the vast majority of them appear to be properly formatted and somewhat intelligently-written, so that's good. It'll save me time grading them this weekend. I've also finished two new poems and have started on a third, so that's good as well. I also think the $8 bottle of high-end, high-mileage engine/fuel system cleaner I used is helping the Monte Carlo as well, as after a week's worth of normal driving she seems to be getting better gas mileage, as evidenced by the fact that this week she only took nine gallons of gas in her tank as opposed to the normal eleven-to-twelve at her regular fill-up time. That means she's getting about 17-18mpg when, previously, it was about 14-15 or so at best.
Yes, I realize that by today's standards, 17-18mpg is almost laughable. Keep in mind that my Monte Carlo is a Z34 -- the sports car version, and that she's sixteen years old and has two bad spark plugs (which causes misfiring engine cylinders = lost gas mileage) and four really old tires that need replaced. With all of those factors against her, 17-18mpg is remarkable, and I'll take what I can get as long as she keeps running. Which, thankfully, she has. Next week she'll cross 220,000 miles.
This weekend will be spent doing some busywork-like homework, grading papers, and finalizing my taxes. I've drafted out my taxes, so I know approximately what I should get back from the feds and the state (about the same as usual, around $1100-1200 total) but until I finalize everything, I won't know for sure. I've got a little more than a month before I fly back to West Virginia over Spring Break to visit my friends and family, so if I want my refunds before then (in order to, y'know, not have to spend a lot of my own money while I'm there) I'll probably have to have them direct-deposited into my bank account -- something I've not done before with my taxes. This will also be helpful, however, because my credit card bill came in the mail this week, and it's not exactly small.
But, things are getting done, good things are happening here and there, and it's the weekend. I'm trying to look on the bright side of things, because this may be the last semester I'm able to do so without being completely swamped with shit to do every waking hour of the day. And that's a good thing in itself.
For the haze that my work week usually is (and still is this week), there have been a few unexpected occurrences that I think can be marked down in the "good" category.
For example, surprisingly enough I've been pulled aside on no less than five occasions during the past two weeks by not only my friends and colleagues, but our esteemed professor as well (which is a big deal, yes), to be told that my poetry this semester is really good.
This, as I've alluded to (or outright said) before, is simply shocking to me. While I do take my work seriously, I've never thought I was that great and have fully admitted it in the past -- there are writers in this program who are leaps and bounds more talented than I am, writers who spend hours crafting lines, tone, line breaks, cadence, etc., and it shows in their work, which is always masterfully written and tends to speak to the proverbial soul. I'm not one of those writers. Most of my poetry is generated from a simple idea, off-the-cuff, and is laid out in lines and line breaks as I write it. Even my best poems I generally don't spend more than an hour on. In fact, some of my worst ones (well, "worst" in my opinion, anyhow) I've spent more time on than my good ones. Poetry isn't like fiction writing -- most of the time it doesn't have a plot or a story arc that it has to follow to its eventual end. There's no time or space for in-depth characterization of the speaker. It usually has to be succinct and direct, get to the point quickly, and be relate-able/understandable in some fashion all within the confines of however many lines one wants to write. I've always seen fiction as a scientific sort of art form, and likened it to the school of Arts and Sciences. It takes scientific skill and a scientific mind to write good fiction, fiction that pops. Poetry to me has always been more of the Fine Arts side of that coin -- like painting. We as poets are really painting word pictures, snapshots, in-the-moment mixed media word bursts. So yeah, it's quite different.
Yes, I realize how absolutely pretentious that sounds, though that wasn't really my intention.
But yeah, anyway, apparently a large chunk of the department likes my stuff this semester. Even my latest poem in this week's workshop packet, which -- and I'd like to make this clear -- I hated, and wrote in about ten minutes.
Sometimes I think that this is all some sort of coma dream, and I'll eventually wake up and realize it's still December -- and I'll have to do all of this again.
I do have a new piece I'm working on now, though, and I really like it. That probably means that next week I'll submit it to the workshop and everyone will hate it. Oh well.
At this point, most of us have now met with our visiting writer this semester, a poet about my Dad's age who is also a huge Wilco fan and a blues guitarist. I can dig it. I met with him yesterday for about an hour or so, and will be meeting with him every Tuesday through the rest of the month at 3:45 (it's one of the few times that both of us were available, as both of us have packed/limited schedules). He did a reading at the library and then an informal, open-to-everyone talk yesterday afternoon, but I didn't go. I don't usually go to these sorts of readings or talks on principle -- for one, I'm generally not interested, but for two, I don't really want my opinion of a visiting poet's style or subject matter in his/her writing to subconsciously taint or otherwise subtly influence my thoughts regarding the feedback I would receive from him/her in our one-on-one meetings. With professors or visiting writers I've had who have published books, poetry or otherwise, I try to avoid their work as much as possible until after I've taken a class with them; I want the class environment to be just that -- a class environment. Even with the visiting writer, which isn't so much a class as it is an intensive, one-on-one workshop that lasts for a month.
The only exception to this rule has been with our esteemed poetry professor, who puts out a new book every year or two. I'd read (and still continue to read) all of his work regularly, as all of us at this point know him on a personal level as well as on an academic level. After my time working with a professor or visiting writer is over, though, I'm generally interested in seeing what they've written. Just not before or during that time.
Another reason I didn't go to the reading/talk was that I had already been stuck on campus for three hours longer than I normally would have been (the journal staff had a meeting I needed to attend), and I really just wanted to go the fuck home afterwards.
Once I got home, I ordered three pizzas, two 2L bottles of Mountain Dew, a big box of chickenstrips and an order of breadsticks from Papa John's -- using my free Super Bowl pizza code as well as a "family meal deal" thing they do -- for $36 total. I now have enough pizza to last me over a week and am considering freezing some of it in Ziploc bags so that I can make it last. This negates any real need for me to go grocery shopping for myself for the next week or so as well, aside from the barest of essentials I might need (i.e. toilet paper, cat food, coffee, cigarettes, etc). Two of the pizzas I haven't even touched yet.
Annnnnnnd the next thing I remember is waking up on the couch at 3:45AM.
Seriously.
On Thursday afternoons/evenings, I get really tired after I come home and eat, regardless of how much sleep I got the night before. Wednesday night I went to bed around 9 (yes, I know, early) and got up at 5, so it's not like I was sleep deprived. Still, there's something in my body/brain chemistry that tells me hey Brandon, you don't have to get up and do anything tomorrow -- it's your weekend, so you're going to sleep. And then I pass out. I do vaguely remember going to lay down on the couch, because Pete (my big male cat) jumped up on my chest and laid down with me. This was, approximately, 7PM or shortly after. This means that I was passed out -- unconscious, dead to the world, and completely un-wake-able -- for almost nine hours. On a small, two-seater loveseat couch from the 1970s, with my feet hanging over the arm on one end. Don't ask me why or how I could do this -- I don't even know myself. It's not exactly comfortable. Being a grad student functioning on short snippets of sleep here and there throughout the work week has apparently given me the ability to fall asleep anywhere, at any time, and in any position -- comfortable or otherwise. I consider this a useful life skill, and/or possibly the most useful thing that I might get out of grad school as a whole.
There have been other good things going on as well, but they're all little things. I did get a load of student papers yesterday, but at first glance the vast majority of them appear to be properly formatted and somewhat intelligently-written, so that's good. It'll save me time grading them this weekend. I've also finished two new poems and have started on a third, so that's good as well. I also think the $8 bottle of high-end, high-mileage engine/fuel system cleaner I used is helping the Monte Carlo as well, as after a week's worth of normal driving she seems to be getting better gas mileage, as evidenced by the fact that this week she only took nine gallons of gas in her tank as opposed to the normal eleven-to-twelve at her regular fill-up time. That means she's getting about 17-18mpg when, previously, it was about 14-15 or so at best.
Yes, I realize that by today's standards, 17-18mpg is almost laughable. Keep in mind that my Monte Carlo is a Z34 -- the sports car version, and that she's sixteen years old and has two bad spark plugs (which causes misfiring engine cylinders = lost gas mileage) and four really old tires that need replaced. With all of those factors against her, 17-18mpg is remarkable, and I'll take what I can get as long as she keeps running. Which, thankfully, she has. Next week she'll cross 220,000 miles.
This weekend will be spent doing some busywork-like homework, grading papers, and finalizing my taxes. I've drafted out my taxes, so I know approximately what I should get back from the feds and the state (about the same as usual, around $1100-1200 total) but until I finalize everything, I won't know for sure. I've got a little more than a month before I fly back to West Virginia over Spring Break to visit my friends and family, so if I want my refunds before then (in order to, y'know, not have to spend a lot of my own money while I'm there) I'll probably have to have them direct-deposited into my bank account -- something I've not done before with my taxes. This will also be helpful, however, because my credit card bill came in the mail this week, and it's not exactly small.
But, things are getting done, good things are happening here and there, and it's the weekend. I'm trying to look on the bright side of things, because this may be the last semester I'm able to do so without being completely swamped with shit to do every waking hour of the day. And that's a good thing in itself.
Tuesday, February 7, 2012
The Long, Cold March of Winter
Spring semester: day seventeen
Uncharacteristic of me, I actually slept all night last night. Well, sort of. I went to bed around 8PM and got up around 3AM. That's seven hours, and a lot more than I get on any normal weeknight. I'll chalk that up in the "successful night of sleep" category.
Yesterday, it was over fifty degrees and beautiful. I went out in it to run a few errands (the previously-mentioned Walmart and gas trip I needed to do). It was very nice, especially for the first week of February in Kansas. Then again, for the past few weeks the temperature has been flirting with 70 or so on a regular basis.
Not anymore, though. There's rain and snow moving through the area today, and at 43 degrees outside now, that's the warmest it's going to be. The wind is supposed to be pretty strong and nasty too, but that's normal for Kansas in any part of the year. By this afternoon/evening when I come home from class, it's supposed to be a nasty rain/snow mix with the aforementioned shitty wind. Which, of course, is not only normal Kansas February weather, but will be just delightful to drive in. As I told my mother in an email last night, people in Kansas drive like idiots normally, but doubly so when the weather is the least bit unpleasant. At least my car has a full tank of gas and seems to be running normally.
Today, as mentioned before, will be a long day anyway. I'm teaching this morning as per the usual, then holding office hours (at least one of which I have to cancel so that I can meet for the first time with this semester's visiting writer this afternoon), then going to poetry workshop. My poem for the packet this week is truly awful, and I fully admit that -- I'm not planning on workshopping it anyway and just needed something to put into the packet. I've not been as inspired to write as much over the course of the past few weeks as I normally am. I'd blame it on being busy, but I've not been incredibly busy as of late. I've just been...well, uninspired. I've not even been really preoccupied with anything, to tell you the truth. Fatigue's been a big part of it. I'm just tired and want to be lazy, and I'll fully admit that.
However, amusingly enough, when I woke up this morning all of my aches and pains I wrote about in my last post were gone. Well, all of them but the achy muscles in my forearm from bowling this weekend; those muscles are still a little tight and sore, but then again I did bowl almost five games back-to-back. That's to be expected.
At least in my downtime, I'll be entertained; having preordered my copy of Tucker Max's new book, I'll receive it today (which is also its release date). According to the tracking number, it's on its way to my house right now. I also ordered (again, one of the few things I've actually done as of late to treat myself) the first three collections of Space Ghost Coast to Coast on DVD as well, as they were incredibly cheap in the bundle pack, and since I finished the two seasons of Community I had, I desperately need something funny to watch in an episodic format. Desperately. Especially now that I can't even watch football anymore to take my mind off things.
I know this makes it sound like I spend a lot of money frivolously; I really, really don't. The vast majority of my money goes to bills, food, and gas for the car. When I stopped at Wendy's on Saturday night on the way home, that's the first time I've actually "eaten out" since August; the only exceptions to that rule being when I very occasionally (read: maybe once a month, and only if I have some money in my wallet) order a pizza, and the cheeseburger I got at McDonald's about a month ago when I was picking up groceries. I never go out drinking or bar-hopping with my friends; as I've said many times before, to me it's mostly pointless.
Well, that and I'm very rarely, if ever, invited to go out and do such things. It doesn't feel right if I just tag along. I'm pretty sure on Saturday after bowling, a lot of us went out drinking after we finished. When the games were over, everybody got into their little groups and made plans, and I stood in the lobby of the bowling alley alone for a few minutes before I shrugged and thought to myself well, it looks like I'm going home. And that's what I did.
I'm really not looking forward to braving the weather today. It's not that I'm tired (because, for once, I'm not), it's just that I'm impatient for spring to actually get here and stay here. I don't like being cold. I also haven't left the house yet (though I will in about ten minutes or so). The biggest part of my proverbial battle of graduate school is actually forcing myself to leave the house and take care of my daily responsibilities, which is (in case you hadn't guessed) not exactly thrilling or fun most of the time. But oh well.
Uncharacteristic of me, I actually slept all night last night. Well, sort of. I went to bed around 8PM and got up around 3AM. That's seven hours, and a lot more than I get on any normal weeknight. I'll chalk that up in the "successful night of sleep" category.
Yesterday, it was over fifty degrees and beautiful. I went out in it to run a few errands (the previously-mentioned Walmart and gas trip I needed to do). It was very nice, especially for the first week of February in Kansas. Then again, for the past few weeks the temperature has been flirting with 70 or so on a regular basis.
Not anymore, though. There's rain and snow moving through the area today, and at 43 degrees outside now, that's the warmest it's going to be. The wind is supposed to be pretty strong and nasty too, but that's normal for Kansas in any part of the year. By this afternoon/evening when I come home from class, it's supposed to be a nasty rain/snow mix with the aforementioned shitty wind. Which, of course, is not only normal Kansas February weather, but will be just delightful to drive in. As I told my mother in an email last night, people in Kansas drive like idiots normally, but doubly so when the weather is the least bit unpleasant. At least my car has a full tank of gas and seems to be running normally.
Today, as mentioned before, will be a long day anyway. I'm teaching this morning as per the usual, then holding office hours (at least one of which I have to cancel so that I can meet for the first time with this semester's visiting writer this afternoon), then going to poetry workshop. My poem for the packet this week is truly awful, and I fully admit that -- I'm not planning on workshopping it anyway and just needed something to put into the packet. I've not been as inspired to write as much over the course of the past few weeks as I normally am. I'd blame it on being busy, but I've not been incredibly busy as of late. I've just been...well, uninspired. I've not even been really preoccupied with anything, to tell you the truth. Fatigue's been a big part of it. I'm just tired and want to be lazy, and I'll fully admit that.
However, amusingly enough, when I woke up this morning all of my aches and pains I wrote about in my last post were gone. Well, all of them but the achy muscles in my forearm from bowling this weekend; those muscles are still a little tight and sore, but then again I did bowl almost five games back-to-back. That's to be expected.
At least in my downtime, I'll be entertained; having preordered my copy of Tucker Max's new book, I'll receive it today (which is also its release date). According to the tracking number, it's on its way to my house right now. I also ordered (again, one of the few things I've actually done as of late to treat myself) the first three collections of Space Ghost Coast to Coast on DVD as well, as they were incredibly cheap in the bundle pack, and since I finished the two seasons of Community I had, I desperately need something funny to watch in an episodic format. Desperately. Especially now that I can't even watch football anymore to take my mind off things.
I know this makes it sound like I spend a lot of money frivolously; I really, really don't. The vast majority of my money goes to bills, food, and gas for the car. When I stopped at Wendy's on Saturday night on the way home, that's the first time I've actually "eaten out" since August; the only exceptions to that rule being when I very occasionally (read: maybe once a month, and only if I have some money in my wallet) order a pizza, and the cheeseburger I got at McDonald's about a month ago when I was picking up groceries. I never go out drinking or bar-hopping with my friends; as I've said many times before, to me it's mostly pointless.
Well, that and I'm very rarely, if ever, invited to go out and do such things. It doesn't feel right if I just tag along. I'm pretty sure on Saturday after bowling, a lot of us went out drinking after we finished. When the games were over, everybody got into their little groups and made plans, and I stood in the lobby of the bowling alley alone for a few minutes before I shrugged and thought to myself well, it looks like I'm going home. And that's what I did.
I'm really not looking forward to braving the weather today. It's not that I'm tired (because, for once, I'm not), it's just that I'm impatient for spring to actually get here and stay here. I don't like being cold. I also haven't left the house yet (though I will in about ten minutes or so). The biggest part of my proverbial battle of graduate school is actually forcing myself to leave the house and take care of my daily responsibilities, which is (in case you hadn't guessed) not exactly thrilling or fun most of the time. But oh well.
Monday, February 6, 2012
The Scourge of Becoming an Old Man
Spring semester: day sixteen
You know, if I felt the least bit sick -- at all -- I would at least have something to blame these aches and pains on.
No, seriously.
I'm twenty-nine years old. I'm really not an old man, yet over the past week I have begun to develop what I can only describe as "old man problems."
I mentioned in my last post how I somehow pulled a back muscle while sleeping, and couldn't tell you how (because, frankly, I don't know). Said muscle is, as mentioned before, in my upper back on the right side, located somewhere around the bottom interior of my shoulder blade and/or is attached to the back of my ribcage somehow. I thought it was getting better as of Friday, when I wrote that last post. Well, it's really not. In fact, last night I slept really poorly because my (formerly) most comfortable sleeping positions somehow pull on said muscle, or otherwise irritate it. This means that if I toss and turn in my sleep -- or even moderately move as I sleep to unconsciously get more comfortable, I am jolted awake, quickly, by a bolt of muscular pain.
Again, I will reiterate that I have no clue how I can pull a muscle in my sleep, or why it hasn't healed by this point -- this happened almost a full week ago now.
On Saturday, I went bowling with the majority of our crew of GTAs. There were a few of us who didn't go, but we had a crew of about twenty of us there. It was really fun; over the course of four games, I bowled something like seven strikes. Which, for me, is unheard of. It's probably the best I've bowled in my entire life. I started every game I played with a strike except for the last one (and I still got a spare on the last one). The third game, I got two strikes in a row. Again, unheard of. During the entire time I was bowling, my muscle was hurting, but just barely. It didn't affect how I bowled, which I thought it would.
Yesterday, of course, I woke up and it was aching more than ever -- with a nice, right-arm muscle ache and joint stiffness in my elbow and wrist (from bowling, of course). And, for some reason, my left thigh and hip ached as well. All of them bothered me all day.
Bowling isn't exactly an athletic sport, you know. It's rolling a ball down a wood floor into a bunch of pins. There's no running or exercise really involved. Hell, there's not even heavy breathing involved.
I'm too young for this shit. That's the point I'm trying to make. I take my vitamins daily, I get exercise on a regular basis, and this weekend I've even got a lot of sleep. So, again, I don't know what's wrong with me, and again, if I felt ill at all, I could at least blame it on the possibility that I was getting sick. I'd blame it on my bed were it not for the fact that the bed is the same one I've slept on since I moved to Kansas from Missouri three years ago with no real problems -- the former girlfriend opted to let me keep it and get a new one when we broke up and she moved out. So, really, I doubt that's the problem.
As an aside, I sometimes wonder if my "lifestyle" of sorts is catching up with me. I do drink a lot of coffee, smoke a lot of cigarettes, and spend three to four days a week running back and forth between school and home at full tilt. I also don't eat a whole lot, and when I do, it's not generally as healthy as it used to be. Despite this, I'm still (very slowly) losing weight. Maybe I'm just slowly running myself completely ragged and my body is, in turn, slowly destroying itself. It's as good an explanation as any, I think.
Or, perhaps I have cancer. Who knows. At this point nothing would surprise me. Or really bother me, to be honest with you.
Oh, I have cancer? Yep, that sounds about right. Oh well.
What I do know is that it's 2:30 in the morning on Monday, and this weekend has gone entirely too quickly. I really didn't get a whole lot accomplished. Today, before I return to my work week tomorrow, I must go out to Walmart and purchase some essentials and then replace the gas in my car that I used in my extra trip to Wichita and back on Saturday (lest I get off my normal fill-up schedule, which would screw up my mileage count). I also have to sit down and do my taxes, which (again) I conveniently forgot about after I mentioned them here before.
No, I did not watch the Super Bowl; there are two TVs in my house, and neither one of them was on the entire weekend save for Thursday night, when I watched a few episodes of The Real Ghostbusters on DVD while I was eating dinner. While I may love football, I had no interest whatsoever in any of the Super Bowl or its accompanying festivities -- I am indifferent about the Giants, and outright hate the Patriots with a burning passion. Because of that, until I saw mentions of it popping up on Twitter, I had basically forgotten it was even going to happen today.
Although I will say that as a Papa John's rewards member, I did end up winning a free pizza and a 2L bottle of Pepsi Max because of the coin toss contest they had. For those of you who didn't know, Papa John's did a contest where "America" could pick heads or tails for the coin toss. The voters picked heads, which meant if the coin toss came up heads in the actual game, all rewards members would win a free pizza and 2-liter of soda. It did come up heads, so, free pizza for me. I've been a rewards member almost since I moved to Kansas, since they're really the only people I order pizza from. They do promotions like this a lot; I've arbitrarily won free pizzas from them before (because they're awesome).
Occasionally, however, I will order from Pizza Hut, but that's only because I sometimes want a stuffed crust or a P'zone.
Despite my aches and pains, I did get a few things taken care of today; I paid all the bills, I cooked a small dinner, and I did all of the assignments for my poetry workshop (three in all). I also cleaned the cat room, did all the laundry, washed and replaced the bedsheets, and did a few various other small things. Right now, Sadie (one of my cats) is sleeping peacefully on my foot. It wasn't really a bad day. I've been taking aspirin -- I've found that it's really all I have in the house, apparently -- for the muscle aches, and it works well enough.
This week I have a lot on my plate, or at least a lot coming up. My students' first papers are coming due (small ones, only worth 20 points), which I must spend a good chunk of next weekend grading. I'm also diving into the first unit of my class headfirst, as well, and will be covering the first two of three major texts they'll be writing their first of three large papers on. On Tuesday afternoon (so, tomorrow) all of us taking this semester's visiting writer will meet with him for the first time, when he will introduce himself to us and we'll more than likely schedule meeting times with him for the next month. I also need to collect books to donate to the EGSA's book sale fundraiser, which we'll be holding over the week of Valentine's Day, and there should be another meeting or two on Thursday afternoon with them, the department journal, or both that I'll have to attend as well. And that doesn't even count whatever work I have to do for the other classes I'm taking. The semester is, indeed, ramping up quickly.
I have put in my "application" of sorts (really, it's just filling out a form that says "yes, I'm interested") to teach over the summer. There are but four classes available to be taught by GTAs. Yes, that's right, four. Over the entire summer. The chances that I'll actually get one of the four is really slim, of course, as pretty much every GTA who plans on staying in Wichita over the summer has expressed their enthusiasm to teach one of them. As our first-year class contains at least a few native Kansans who live in/around the area full-time, my chances of getting selected are even slimmer. Unlike most grad students who can and do go home over the summer and live with their parents, I don't have that option -- I'm not going anywhere and will still have three months' worth of bills to pay without a regular paycheck coming in, not to mention another car insurance payment that will be due at the end of June. If I don't get one of the four teaching positions, I'll have to find something that will bring in literally thousands of dollars to live on over those summer months without paychecks, and I will need to find it very, very quickly once school ends. This is not a prospect I look forward to, no, not at all.
But, again, that's something I really can't worry about much at the moment. For now, at least, I have to again focus on the present, and getting the current stuff taken care of.
You know, if I felt the least bit sick -- at all -- I would at least have something to blame these aches and pains on.
No, seriously.
I'm twenty-nine years old. I'm really not an old man, yet over the past week I have begun to develop what I can only describe as "old man problems."
I mentioned in my last post how I somehow pulled a back muscle while sleeping, and couldn't tell you how (because, frankly, I don't know). Said muscle is, as mentioned before, in my upper back on the right side, located somewhere around the bottom interior of my shoulder blade and/or is attached to the back of my ribcage somehow. I thought it was getting better as of Friday, when I wrote that last post. Well, it's really not. In fact, last night I slept really poorly because my (formerly) most comfortable sleeping positions somehow pull on said muscle, or otherwise irritate it. This means that if I toss and turn in my sleep -- or even moderately move as I sleep to unconsciously get more comfortable, I am jolted awake, quickly, by a bolt of muscular pain.
Again, I will reiterate that I have no clue how I can pull a muscle in my sleep, or why it hasn't healed by this point -- this happened almost a full week ago now.
On Saturday, I went bowling with the majority of our crew of GTAs. There were a few of us who didn't go, but we had a crew of about twenty of us there. It was really fun; over the course of four games, I bowled something like seven strikes. Which, for me, is unheard of. It's probably the best I've bowled in my entire life. I started every game I played with a strike except for the last one (and I still got a spare on the last one). The third game, I got two strikes in a row. Again, unheard of. During the entire time I was bowling, my muscle was hurting, but just barely. It didn't affect how I bowled, which I thought it would.
Yesterday, of course, I woke up and it was aching more than ever -- with a nice, right-arm muscle ache and joint stiffness in my elbow and wrist (from bowling, of course). And, for some reason, my left thigh and hip ached as well. All of them bothered me all day.
Bowling isn't exactly an athletic sport, you know. It's rolling a ball down a wood floor into a bunch of pins. There's no running or exercise really involved. Hell, there's not even heavy breathing involved.
I'm too young for this shit. That's the point I'm trying to make. I take my vitamins daily, I get exercise on a regular basis, and this weekend I've even got a lot of sleep. So, again, I don't know what's wrong with me, and again, if I felt ill at all, I could at least blame it on the possibility that I was getting sick. I'd blame it on my bed were it not for the fact that the bed is the same one I've slept on since I moved to Kansas from Missouri three years ago with no real problems -- the former girlfriend opted to let me keep it and get a new one when we broke up and she moved out. So, really, I doubt that's the problem.
As an aside, I sometimes wonder if my "lifestyle" of sorts is catching up with me. I do drink a lot of coffee, smoke a lot of cigarettes, and spend three to four days a week running back and forth between school and home at full tilt. I also don't eat a whole lot, and when I do, it's not generally as healthy as it used to be. Despite this, I'm still (very slowly) losing weight. Maybe I'm just slowly running myself completely ragged and my body is, in turn, slowly destroying itself. It's as good an explanation as any, I think.
Or, perhaps I have cancer. Who knows. At this point nothing would surprise me. Or really bother me, to be honest with you.
Oh, I have cancer? Yep, that sounds about right. Oh well.
What I do know is that it's 2:30 in the morning on Monday, and this weekend has gone entirely too quickly. I really didn't get a whole lot accomplished. Today, before I return to my work week tomorrow, I must go out to Walmart and purchase some essentials and then replace the gas in my car that I used in my extra trip to Wichita and back on Saturday (lest I get off my normal fill-up schedule, which would screw up my mileage count). I also have to sit down and do my taxes, which (again) I conveniently forgot about after I mentioned them here before.
No, I did not watch the Super Bowl; there are two TVs in my house, and neither one of them was on the entire weekend save for Thursday night, when I watched a few episodes of The Real Ghostbusters on DVD while I was eating dinner. While I may love football, I had no interest whatsoever in any of the Super Bowl or its accompanying festivities -- I am indifferent about the Giants, and outright hate the Patriots with a burning passion. Because of that, until I saw mentions of it popping up on Twitter, I had basically forgotten it was even going to happen today.
Although I will say that as a Papa John's rewards member, I did end up winning a free pizza and a 2L bottle of Pepsi Max because of the coin toss contest they had. For those of you who didn't know, Papa John's did a contest where "America" could pick heads or tails for the coin toss. The voters picked heads, which meant if the coin toss came up heads in the actual game, all rewards members would win a free pizza and 2-liter of soda. It did come up heads, so, free pizza for me. I've been a rewards member almost since I moved to Kansas, since they're really the only people I order pizza from. They do promotions like this a lot; I've arbitrarily won free pizzas from them before (because they're awesome).
Occasionally, however, I will order from Pizza Hut, but that's only because I sometimes want a stuffed crust or a P'zone.
Despite my aches and pains, I did get a few things taken care of today; I paid all the bills, I cooked a small dinner, and I did all of the assignments for my poetry workshop (three in all). I also cleaned the cat room, did all the laundry, washed and replaced the bedsheets, and did a few various other small things. Right now, Sadie (one of my cats) is sleeping peacefully on my foot. It wasn't really a bad day. I've been taking aspirin -- I've found that it's really all I have in the house, apparently -- for the muscle aches, and it works well enough.
This week I have a lot on my plate, or at least a lot coming up. My students' first papers are coming due (small ones, only worth 20 points), which I must spend a good chunk of next weekend grading. I'm also diving into the first unit of my class headfirst, as well, and will be covering the first two of three major texts they'll be writing their first of three large papers on. On Tuesday afternoon (so, tomorrow) all of us taking this semester's visiting writer will meet with him for the first time, when he will introduce himself to us and we'll more than likely schedule meeting times with him for the next month. I also need to collect books to donate to the EGSA's book sale fundraiser, which we'll be holding over the week of Valentine's Day, and there should be another meeting or two on Thursday afternoon with them, the department journal, or both that I'll have to attend as well. And that doesn't even count whatever work I have to do for the other classes I'm taking. The semester is, indeed, ramping up quickly.
I have put in my "application" of sorts (really, it's just filling out a form that says "yes, I'm interested") to teach over the summer. There are but four classes available to be taught by GTAs. Yes, that's right, four. Over the entire summer. The chances that I'll actually get one of the four is really slim, of course, as pretty much every GTA who plans on staying in Wichita over the summer has expressed their enthusiasm to teach one of them. As our first-year class contains at least a few native Kansans who live in/around the area full-time, my chances of getting selected are even slimmer. Unlike most grad students who can and do go home over the summer and live with their parents, I don't have that option -- I'm not going anywhere and will still have three months' worth of bills to pay without a regular paycheck coming in, not to mention another car insurance payment that will be due at the end of June. If I don't get one of the four teaching positions, I'll have to find something that will bring in literally thousands of dollars to live on over those summer months without paychecks, and I will need to find it very, very quickly once school ends. This is not a prospect I look forward to, no, not at all.
But, again, that's something I really can't worry about much at the moment. For now, at least, I have to again focus on the present, and getting the current stuff taken care of.
Friday, February 3, 2012
Strange Week
Spring semester: day fifteen
My week has been a haze of going to and from school, and not much else. In trying to stay awake enough to actually accomplish all of my school-related responsibilities, activities, and assignments, I have run myself ragged most of the time. No longer do I remember even half of what I'm supposed to do/get done without writing it down, and I no longer remember anything discussed in any of my classes. Frequently, after teaching my students, I will either return to my office or return home after class and not be able to remember a fucking thing I just said. It will all be a blank. I'll remember the concepts, sure, and maybe a little of the class discussion, but for the most part it's like I'm on autopilot.
I am convinced that this entire "living in a haze" sort of feeling is because I have some sort of medical problem related to sleep/sleep deprivation. I've not really talked about it much, but I haven't slept on a "normal" sort of sleep schedule for any real amount of time since elementary school, when I had a set bedtime of 9PM. In junior high -- when I first got the internet, in 1995-1996ish -- is when I developed my "night owl" lifestyle, primarily because of the internet. In high school, I got up at 5AM or earlier (much like I do now) because I caught the bus at 6:50. I came home from school, had dinner, and went to sleep around 6PM or 7 at the latest on most nights. In college? About the same, though most of the time I would make my own dinner, go to sleep, and then get up around 2AM. After college it became even stranger; my schedule was constantly in flux when I was working both at the grocery store back home as well as the university on alternating days, and I had to sleep whenever I could. Once I moved to the midwest, of course, I worked overnight shifts at the grocery store in Missouri for three years. For the first few months I was living in Kansas, I wasn't working (read: I slept whenever/however), and then got another overnight grocery store job before leaving that place to work for the newspaper and then attend grad school. My point is that throughout the vast majority of my life, I haven't had the sort of lifestyle that would allow me to do the whole "go to bed at 9PM, wake up at 6AM" sort of thing for any really substantial amount of time. And I think all of the years of being unable to sleep on a set schedule has completely wrecked my body's ability to adhere to any sort of actual rhythm, instead of telling me things like "You. Sleep now. I don't care that it's 9AM/2PM/6PM/etc. It's time for you to sleep, and if you don't comply, you will submit by force."
Metaphorically speaking, of course. That's certainly what it feels like.
Case in point: on Thursdays (read: yesterday) I get done with teaching my classes by 12:15. I set up my schedule to where 90% of the time, unless I have some sort of prior commitment, I can come home as soon as I'm done teaching and start my weekend early. Sometimes I can't do this; I'll have meetings with students or organizations within the department that I am part of, but generally I can come back home when I'm done. Again, I wanted this schedule. I set it up this way on purpose. Yesterday, even though I'd gotten some decent sleep the night before (not a lot, but some) I came home, made a small lunch, and basically slipped into a coma for seven hours straight. I was in bed by 2PM. Seriously.
I've had a really strange week, actually. For example, I saw several people yesterday morning dressed really strangely, including a girl with a pink mohawk much larger than her actual head, and a nun wearing a full habit -- both walking around inside the building in which I work. Living in Kansas and attending a public university with what seems to be low admission standards, however, I've found that these sorts of things rarely surprise me anymore.
I'm not kidding about that last part, either; I just found out this week that the fall 2011 entering class had the lowest test scores on record (I assume said tests were the SAT or ACT tests) allowed for admission to the university. Or something along those lines. This is amusing, because you'd think that's something that, y'know, the university really wouldn't want to be publicized.
My week was punctuated by a few other weird things as well. This is a short list of those things, with the first being a sudden and crippling illness which lasted for less than an hour.
Let me explain.
On Tuesday night, I went to bed fairly early -- around 9:30 or so. I was tired, I'd gotten home from classes around 8, made dinner, and wanted to go to bed, so I did. Around 2:30 AM, I awoke very slowly, a little at a time, because my stomach was bothering me. Sometimes I'll get heartburn in the night, and it sucks, but after a few minutes it tends to go away and I'm able to go back to sleep. This, however -- whatever it was -- wasn't going away. And as I felt more and more sick, I began to wake up fully and realize that no, this wasn't heartburn, it was something else.
Around 2:45, I realized that okay, this is a sort of "you need to vomit" feeling.
Generally, as you could probably assume, this is a really bad sign. Normal, healthy people don't just wake up in the middle of the night and need to throw up -- that's usually something associated with food poisoning or the stomach flu, neither of which I wanted or had time for.
I went upstairs, turned on the hall light (which is one of the fluorescent bulbs, so it's a softer light that won't necessarily blind you) and immediately threw up into the toilet. A lot. Really a lot. Which was surprising seeing as it had been about six hours since I had last eaten at that point.
When I was done, I felt fine. Hm, that was weird, I thought to myself. I rinsed out my mouth, gargled, drank two glasses of water and took some Pepto Bismol, and I went back to bed -- where I was almost immediately able to fall back asleep. When I woke up Wednesday morning, I felt normal, as per the usual. Whatever it was, it was out of my system.
In all of my life I can't recall another time where I was able to rid myself of illness in less than thirty minutes. That was a very, very surreal experience. I felt so normal the next morning I wondered briefly if I'd dreamed the entire thing. I knew I hadn't, but still. I've not been ill since. It must've been what I ate for dinner -- a chicken sandwich -- that disagreed with me.
At some point, I also pulled a muscle in my back while I was sleeping. How I do this on occasion is anyone's guess; I must be special in that regard. Still, it's a muscle on the right side about halfway up my back, and it feels like it's underneath my shoulder blade. It also feels like it's the muscle that connects to the back of my rib cage, so when it hurts it draws up tight and locks -- which is painful enough in itself, but also gives me the added bonus of feeling like I can't breathe. It's slowly getting better, but it still sucks.
Yeah, folks, I've got problems.
In other news, on Wednesday I also received my plane tickets for Spring Break from my mother. I'll be in West Virginia for a little less than five days, which gives me the other days of break back here to do whatever work I need to take care of for school during said time off. Three of those days have already been planned out, actually -- the first I'll be traveling and more than likely meeting Wayne and Jane for a late lunch in Pittsburgh as soon as the plane lands, the second I plan to visit my grandmother, and the third Andrea and I will be spending quality time together as much as possible (read: shopping and galavanting about Morgantown). I've planned nothing further than that, but I'm guessing there will be at least one large family dinner at at least one Mexican restaurant, as is customary for my folks.
I was lucky to get out of class early on Wednesday evening, but due to said luck I also missed the huge, bright and massive meteor that crossed over at least two states and was visible here. A lot of people in Wichita saw it, and apparently it landed (if it did land) somewhere in extreme northern Texas or Oklahoma. Yeah. It was that big. Wichita news websites were going crazy about it, hundreds saw it fall, etc. The link I posted above has a few photos and the one live video I've been able to find of the occurrence, taken from the dash cam of a cop car, but apparently those who saw it even up here said it was spectacular.
As an aside, I've seen some pretty big ones myself in the early morning and/or late night drives I make to and from campus. I just think it's neat. Meteors have always fascinated me.
Today, we (finally) get paid for the first time this semester. This is good, because I'd been living off my loans and credit card for the past few weeks to pay bills and be able to eat/put gas in the car. Now that I'll be getting regular paychecks again every two weeks until the end of the semester, my monetary load will be lightened a bit. Today's check, at least, is a lot larger than the usual, as well (by almost $40). Who knows if that will be a one-time thing, or if we'll be getting larger checks but fewer of them because of the length of the semester. Our salary as GTAs, after all, remains the same.
This weekend I have a few small things to do for my classes/students, but my main task is to do my taxes. Now that I have my plane ticket ready to go, it's imperative that I finish and send off my taxes ASAP in hopes of getting my refund before the trip. If I don't get it before the trip, it's not a huge deal, of course -- I do have some money -- but still, it would be nice.
My week has been a haze of going to and from school, and not much else. In trying to stay awake enough to actually accomplish all of my school-related responsibilities, activities, and assignments, I have run myself ragged most of the time. No longer do I remember even half of what I'm supposed to do/get done without writing it down, and I no longer remember anything discussed in any of my classes. Frequently, after teaching my students, I will either return to my office or return home after class and not be able to remember a fucking thing I just said. It will all be a blank. I'll remember the concepts, sure, and maybe a little of the class discussion, but for the most part it's like I'm on autopilot.
I am convinced that this entire "living in a haze" sort of feeling is because I have some sort of medical problem related to sleep/sleep deprivation. I've not really talked about it much, but I haven't slept on a "normal" sort of sleep schedule for any real amount of time since elementary school, when I had a set bedtime of 9PM. In junior high -- when I first got the internet, in 1995-1996ish -- is when I developed my "night owl" lifestyle, primarily because of the internet. In high school, I got up at 5AM or earlier (much like I do now) because I caught the bus at 6:50. I came home from school, had dinner, and went to sleep around 6PM or 7 at the latest on most nights. In college? About the same, though most of the time I would make my own dinner, go to sleep, and then get up around 2AM. After college it became even stranger; my schedule was constantly in flux when I was working both at the grocery store back home as well as the university on alternating days, and I had to sleep whenever I could. Once I moved to the midwest, of course, I worked overnight shifts at the grocery store in Missouri for three years. For the first few months I was living in Kansas, I wasn't working (read: I slept whenever/however), and then got another overnight grocery store job before leaving that place to work for the newspaper and then attend grad school. My point is that throughout the vast majority of my life, I haven't had the sort of lifestyle that would allow me to do the whole "go to bed at 9PM, wake up at 6AM" sort of thing for any really substantial amount of time. And I think all of the years of being unable to sleep on a set schedule has completely wrecked my body's ability to adhere to any sort of actual rhythm, instead of telling me things like "You. Sleep now. I don't care that it's 9AM/2PM/6PM/etc. It's time for you to sleep, and if you don't comply, you will submit by force."
Metaphorically speaking, of course. That's certainly what it feels like.
Case in point: on Thursdays (read: yesterday) I get done with teaching my classes by 12:15. I set up my schedule to where 90% of the time, unless I have some sort of prior commitment, I can come home as soon as I'm done teaching and start my weekend early. Sometimes I can't do this; I'll have meetings with students or organizations within the department that I am part of, but generally I can come back home when I'm done. Again, I wanted this schedule. I set it up this way on purpose. Yesterday, even though I'd gotten some decent sleep the night before (not a lot, but some) I came home, made a small lunch, and basically slipped into a coma for seven hours straight. I was in bed by 2PM. Seriously.
I've had a really strange week, actually. For example, I saw several people yesterday morning dressed really strangely, including a girl with a pink mohawk much larger than her actual head, and a nun wearing a full habit -- both walking around inside the building in which I work. Living in Kansas and attending a public university with what seems to be low admission standards, however, I've found that these sorts of things rarely surprise me anymore.
I'm not kidding about that last part, either; I just found out this week that the fall 2011 entering class had the lowest test scores on record (I assume said tests were the SAT or ACT tests) allowed for admission to the university. Or something along those lines. This is amusing, because you'd think that's something that, y'know, the university really wouldn't want to be publicized.
My week was punctuated by a few other weird things as well. This is a short list of those things, with the first being a sudden and crippling illness which lasted for less than an hour.
Let me explain.
On Tuesday night, I went to bed fairly early -- around 9:30 or so. I was tired, I'd gotten home from classes around 8, made dinner, and wanted to go to bed, so I did. Around 2:30 AM, I awoke very slowly, a little at a time, because my stomach was bothering me. Sometimes I'll get heartburn in the night, and it sucks, but after a few minutes it tends to go away and I'm able to go back to sleep. This, however -- whatever it was -- wasn't going away. And as I felt more and more sick, I began to wake up fully and realize that no, this wasn't heartburn, it was something else.
Around 2:45, I realized that okay, this is a sort of "you need to vomit" feeling.
Generally, as you could probably assume, this is a really bad sign. Normal, healthy people don't just wake up in the middle of the night and need to throw up -- that's usually something associated with food poisoning or the stomach flu, neither of which I wanted or had time for.
I went upstairs, turned on the hall light (which is one of the fluorescent bulbs, so it's a softer light that won't necessarily blind you) and immediately threw up into the toilet. A lot. Really a lot. Which was surprising seeing as it had been about six hours since I had last eaten at that point.
When I was done, I felt fine. Hm, that was weird, I thought to myself. I rinsed out my mouth, gargled, drank two glasses of water and took some Pepto Bismol, and I went back to bed -- where I was almost immediately able to fall back asleep. When I woke up Wednesday morning, I felt normal, as per the usual. Whatever it was, it was out of my system.
In all of my life I can't recall another time where I was able to rid myself of illness in less than thirty minutes. That was a very, very surreal experience. I felt so normal the next morning I wondered briefly if I'd dreamed the entire thing. I knew I hadn't, but still. I've not been ill since. It must've been what I ate for dinner -- a chicken sandwich -- that disagreed with me.
At some point, I also pulled a muscle in my back while I was sleeping. How I do this on occasion is anyone's guess; I must be special in that regard. Still, it's a muscle on the right side about halfway up my back, and it feels like it's underneath my shoulder blade. It also feels like it's the muscle that connects to the back of my rib cage, so when it hurts it draws up tight and locks -- which is painful enough in itself, but also gives me the added bonus of feeling like I can't breathe. It's slowly getting better, but it still sucks.
Yeah, folks, I've got problems.
In other news, on Wednesday I also received my plane tickets for Spring Break from my mother. I'll be in West Virginia for a little less than five days, which gives me the other days of break back here to do whatever work I need to take care of for school during said time off. Three of those days have already been planned out, actually -- the first I'll be traveling and more than likely meeting Wayne and Jane for a late lunch in Pittsburgh as soon as the plane lands, the second I plan to visit my grandmother, and the third Andrea and I will be spending quality time together as much as possible (read: shopping and galavanting about Morgantown). I've planned nothing further than that, but I'm guessing there will be at least one large family dinner at at least one Mexican restaurant, as is customary for my folks.
I was lucky to get out of class early on Wednesday evening, but due to said luck I also missed the huge, bright and massive meteor that crossed over at least two states and was visible here. A lot of people in Wichita saw it, and apparently it landed (if it did land) somewhere in extreme northern Texas or Oklahoma. Yeah. It was that big. Wichita news websites were going crazy about it, hundreds saw it fall, etc. The link I posted above has a few photos and the one live video I've been able to find of the occurrence, taken from the dash cam of a cop car, but apparently those who saw it even up here said it was spectacular.
As an aside, I've seen some pretty big ones myself in the early morning and/or late night drives I make to and from campus. I just think it's neat. Meteors have always fascinated me.
Today, we (finally) get paid for the first time this semester. This is good, because I'd been living off my loans and credit card for the past few weeks to pay bills and be able to eat/put gas in the car. Now that I'll be getting regular paychecks again every two weeks until the end of the semester, my monetary load will be lightened a bit. Today's check, at least, is a lot larger than the usual, as well (by almost $40). Who knows if that will be a one-time thing, or if we'll be getting larger checks but fewer of them because of the length of the semester. Our salary as GTAs, after all, remains the same.
This weekend I have a few small things to do for my classes/students, but my main task is to do my taxes. Now that I have my plane ticket ready to go, it's imperative that I finish and send off my taxes ASAP in hopes of getting my refund before the trip. If I don't get it before the trip, it's not a huge deal, of course -- I do have some money -- but still, it would be nice.
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